"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Has Anyone Ever Done This Before?

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Instead of sitting at the bar, sometimes I'll switch it up and sit in a booth to have more room while dining.

So let's say this is a casual dining restaurant, cafeteria, or coffee shop, and you see an attractive female looking for a seat, have you ever said:

"Why don't you come sit by me?"
or
"Come sit over here"
or
You become like Chris Hanson and say: "Why don't you have a seat over there?"

This is a different type of cold approach I've never tested, and have wondered about often.
If you've done this before, tell your story of what happened and how or what you said in this approach.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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