“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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harridan upset that she paid more on first date than the man, and that he didn't pick her up at her place

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Women get plenty of freebies in dating. If she paid for her portion of one first date, it's not a big deal. In her dating lifetime, she's had many free first dates.

It stinks to cover the entire cost of a first date and never see the woman again. There were times in the late 2000s/early 2010s where I was paying for the entire cost of a first date when the woman made more $$$ than I did at that time. How unfair was that? I never said anything in person about that situation.

Picking women up at their place on a first date is an outdated practice. It's not going to happen with swipe apps or social media DMs. It's very unlikely to happen in a first date arranged by some cold approach in either a nightlife venue or some non-bar venue. It could only happen via social circle with some level of trust. Fewer and fewer dates are arranged via social circle anymore.

Even though the woman in this video is 40, there are plenty of men who will pay for all of her stuff.
 
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Picking women up at their place on a first date is an outdated practice. It's not going to happen with swipe apps or social media DMs.
It’s a good idea though IF you set up the first date close to her place. You get tactical advantage with her being used to you knowing where she lives AND you may even get the invite inside. Big probability if there was kissing and heavy petting on the date…
 

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A woman that asks a guy to pick her up at her place, drive her to the restaurant, pay the bill and be ok without being sure of getting anything in return already dumbzoned him.
 
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