"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Harridan laments about the difference between being ages 26 & 36

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https://www.theglobeandmail.com/opinion/the-awful-truth-about-being-single/article7536781/

There is a world of difference between being single at 26, and being single at 36. I know. At 26, I was completely thrilled to be me. I had a promising career and an interesting and varied romantic life (though not half as interesting as I had hoped). I was determined never to depend financially on a man. I wasn't drawn to motherhood, and marriage was the last thing on my mind.

At 36, being me was not so thrilling any more. I was bored with my own company. Eating leftover roast chicken in front of the TV had lost its charm. A bookish introvert by nature, I was turning into a recluse. The single men – where were they all? – had all but dried up. Eventually it dawned on me that unless I took drastic action, I faced a future as a cat lady. That's the difference a decade makes.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I see lots and lots of women like that. They live their 20s being selfish, and their 30s and 40s are spent lonely and bitter. I just had one unfriend me on Facebook. Shes the same age as me and I know she wanted to date me, but I think my 24 year old gf became a sore spot for her.

I really think there's a huge change coming in the future, but things will get worse before that happens. I'll be an old man by the time things begin to fix themselves.
 
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Desdinova said:
I really think there's a huge change coming in the future, but things will get worse before that happens. I'll be an old man by the time things begin to fix themselves.
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The 'house of cards' that is our fiat economic system, will fall down.

See Zimbabwe:

 
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