"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Harridan laments about the difference between being ages 26 & 36

MatureDJ

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https://www.theglobeandmail.com/opinion/the-awful-truth-about-being-single/article7536781/

There is a world of difference between being single at 26, and being single at 36. I know. At 26, I was completely thrilled to be me. I had a promising career and an interesting and varied romantic life (though not half as interesting as I had hoped). I was determined never to depend financially on a man. I wasn't drawn to motherhood, and marriage was the last thing on my mind.

At 36, being me was not so thrilling any more. I was bored with my own company. Eating leftover roast chicken in front of the TV had lost its charm. A bookish introvert by nature, I was turning into a recluse. The single men – where were they all? – had all but dried up. Eventually it dawned on me that unless I took drastic action, I faced a future as a cat lady. That's the difference a decade makes.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I see lots and lots of women like that. They live their 20s being selfish, and their 30s and 40s are spent lonely and bitter. I just had one unfriend me on Facebook. Shes the same age as me and I know she wanted to date me, but I think my 24 year old gf became a sore spot for her.

I really think there's a huge change coming in the future, but things will get worse before that happens. I'll be an old man by the time things begin to fix themselves.
 

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I really think there's a huge change coming in the future, but things will get worse before that happens. I'll be an old man by the time things begin to fix themselves.
The 'house of cards' that is our fiat economic system, will fall down.

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