"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Harridan laments about the difference between being ages 26 & 36

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https://www.theglobeandmail.com/opinion/the-awful-truth-about-being-single/article7536781/

There is a world of difference between being single at 26, and being single at 36. I know. At 26, I was completely thrilled to be me. I had a promising career and an interesting and varied romantic life (though not half as interesting as I had hoped). I was determined never to depend financially on a man. I wasn't drawn to motherhood, and marriage was the last thing on my mind.

At 36, being me was not so thrilling any more. I was bored with my own company. Eating leftover roast chicken in front of the TV had lost its charm. A bookish introvert by nature, I was turning into a recluse. The single men – where were they all? – had all but dried up. Eventually it dawned on me that unless I took drastic action, I faced a future as a cat lady. That's the difference a decade makes.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I see lots and lots of women like that. They live their 20s being selfish, and their 30s and 40s are spent lonely and bitter. I just had one unfriend me on Facebook. Shes the same age as me and I know she wanted to date me, but I think my 24 year old gf became a sore spot for her.

I really think there's a huge change coming in the future, but things will get worse before that happens. I'll be an old man by the time things begin to fix themselves.
 
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Desdinova said:
I really think there's a huge change coming in the future, but things will get worse before that happens. I'll be an old man by the time things begin to fix themselves.
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The 'house of cards' that is our fiat economic system, will fall down.

See Zimbabwe:

 
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