"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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harridan: I’m 56 and still sunbathe topless – and why not

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BackInTheGame78

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Seems to be a common theme with these women...they are used to getting attention for free when younger but as they age they have to take more and more drastic measures to ensure it continues...

At her age, being half naked all the time is the only way.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

BillyPilgrim

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Seems to be a common theme with these women...they are used to getting attention for free when younger but as they age they have to take more and more drastic measures to ensure it continues...

At her age, being half naked all the time is the only way.
....which includes "love bombing" on the dating apps
 

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Seems to be a common theme with these women...they are used to getting attention for free when younger but as they age they have to take more and more drastic measures to ensure it continues...

At her age, being half naked all the time is the only way.
Gone are the times where such a woman could peacefully resign from "game" and be a grandparent and overwatch for the family.

The new crop of 50 year olds shows us how delusional and crazy some women can be.

I'll tell you one thing for sure; she doesn't want to date a(or any) 50 y.o man unless he's that 5 percenter. Otherwise she'll aim for younger more attractive men.
I’d smash with alcohol involved. It might be fun recreation. Why not?
Some fantasies should stay exactly what they are: just a fantasy.

We're talking alcohol poisoning levels of consumption, c'mon bro.
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Millard Fillmore

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Nothing wrong with sunbathing topless, women of all ages do it. Why she is flaunting this I don't know.
 
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