Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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SSben

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Well this all started with a girl i used to go out with, anyways, i kept calling her once a month, trying to get attraction going on, but she had a bf, so i played the jerk routine, anyways i dont think pushed it too far, but her mom got upset, and she told my sis asking if i was still around and saying that she was gonna try and get me introuble.

how serious is this situation, i wanted to work on this girl, doing all this ****y funny, nlp, ect but im afaid i reached the point of no return, should i give it 5 months?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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well it sounds like u dont really understand what the /f rutine is, your supposed to be affencive but funny and elt her understand that ur joking... sounds to me u were just being a jerk prolly if her mum after ya now.... if i was u i would lay low for the next month or two.... say ur sorry to the girl if she was really affended , and maby get a new target cuz sounds like this girl really likes her BF....
 

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hi

well i dont wanna call her again couse the whole mom sistuation, havent talked to her 2-3 months, i however do know where she works, saw her there one day, she doesnt know that i know this, but i was thinking of somekind of approach like

"i was looking to find something for my gf"

that way i dont come across needy

then

"shes about your size, and she likes lingerie"

start the whole ****y and funny
 

Morphiex

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if her mum doesnt like u its gonna be hard to get a rlt going with her, cuz most girls want theyr bf to get along with they parents...
if u just wanna get her in bed , then u got to ask yourself is it really worth using all that time to get her....And she could really be in love with her bf.... i would just move on , doesnt look like u have the odds on your side....
 

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well it sounds like u dont really understand what the /f rutine is, your supposed to be affencive but funny and elt her understand that ur joking... sounds to me u were just being a jerk prolly if her mum after ya now.... if i was u i would lay low for the next month or two.... say ur sorry to the girl if she was really affended , and maby get a new target cuz sounds like this girl really likes her BF....



honestly, if you had misspelled one more word, I think my monitor would have imploded.

Use real words.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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