"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Harrassment, Restraining order charges...

SSben

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Well this all started with a girl i used to go out with, anyways, i kept calling her once a month, trying to get attraction going on, but she had a bf, so i played the jerk routine, anyways i dont think pushed it too far, but her mom got upset, and she told my sis asking if i was still around and saying that she was gonna try and get me introuble.

how serious is this situation, i wanted to work on this girl, doing all this ****y funny, nlp, ect but im afaid i reached the point of no return, should i give it 5 months?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Morphiex

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well it sounds like u dont really understand what the /f rutine is, your supposed to be affencive but funny and elt her understand that ur joking... sounds to me u were just being a jerk prolly if her mum after ya now.... if i was u i would lay low for the next month or two.... say ur sorry to the girl if she was really affended , and maby get a new target cuz sounds like this girl really likes her BF....
 

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hi

well i dont wanna call her again couse the whole mom sistuation, havent talked to her 2-3 months, i however do know where she works, saw her there one day, she doesnt know that i know this, but i was thinking of somekind of approach like

"i was looking to find something for my gf"

that way i dont come across needy

then

"shes about your size, and she likes lingerie"

start the whole ****y and funny
 

Morphiex

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if her mum doesnt like u its gonna be hard to get a rlt going with her, cuz most girls want theyr bf to get along with they parents...
if u just wanna get her in bed , then u got to ask yourself is it really worth using all that time to get her....And she could really be in love with her bf.... i would just move on , doesnt look like u have the odds on your side....
 

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well it sounds like u dont really understand what the /f rutine is, your supposed to be affencive but funny and elt her understand that ur joking... sounds to me u were just being a jerk prolly if her mum after ya now.... if i was u i would lay low for the next month or two.... say ur sorry to the girl if she was really affended , and maby get a new target cuz sounds like this girl really likes her BF....



honestly, if you had misspelled one more word, I think my monitor would have imploded.

Use real words.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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