"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hardly know her-calls me a stalker-need urgent advice before 2morw

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And don't forget, just ebcause some stupid girls may or may not think something about you, doesn't make it true.

Don't let their idiot b*llsh*t f*ck up your reality. You know you're not a stalker, or weird, so don't secondguess yourself so easily just because these girls are saying stuff. I did the same kind of thing at your age, hence my reply.

If you live your life being yourself, some people are going to not like you, and that's ok. But don't let anybody's opinions of you change how you think about yourself, particularly when they are stupid girls who add nothing good to your life.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Her friend = ****block
Your bus buddy = ****block

Ignore them both and get with the girl you like.

However - if thr girl you like is being a **** then make sure you're in a crowded room with your peers, and say the following loudly: (don't shout or act aggressive though)

"WHAT THE **** IS YOUR PROBLEM? GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE! THERE'S NO WAY IN HELL I'D STALK ANYONE, ESPECIALLY NOT SOMEONE LIKE YOU!"

It'll embarass the **** out of her. And hopefully ruin HER rep.
 

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Originally posted by Q-Unit
Her friend = ****block
Your bus buddy = ****block

Ignore them both and get with the girl you like.

However - if thr girl you like is being a **** then make sure you're in a crowded room with your peers, and say the following loudly: (don't shout or act aggressive though)

"WHAT THE **** IS YOUR PROBLEM? GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE! THERE'S NO WAY IN HELL I'D STALK ANYONE, ESPECIALLY NOT SOMEONE LIKE YOU!"

It'll embarass the **** out of her. And hopefully ruin HER rep.
Nah, that'll just add credence to her stalker claim. If you act crazy, it'll just fuel the fire. IGNORE THE BYTCH.
 

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Good job on the moving on no eye contact maneuver you get DJ points for that:up:

that's just a B!tch move on the girls part...i think she was scared or she wass a AFB (average fustrated B!tch) who was too chicken to talk to you so..in return she tried to stick a stalker claim on you to make her feel better...chicks do that if it ever comes up again be confident when someone says it and just be like "No i didn't stalk her" and just brush it off with your chin up.
 

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heh,
Today as I was walking outside to catch the bus, she was there with 3 of her friends and i could sense she was watching me, but I just looked straight ahead :cool:

Thx for the advice guys, i'm pretty much over it all now :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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