"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hardly know her-calls me a stalker-need urgent advice before 2morw

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And don't forget, just ebcause some stupid girls may or may not think something about you, doesn't make it true.

Don't let their idiot b*llsh*t f*ck up your reality. You know you're not a stalker, or weird, so don't secondguess yourself so easily just because these girls are saying stuff. I did the same kind of thing at your age, hence my reply.

If you live your life being yourself, some people are going to not like you, and that's ok. But don't let anybody's opinions of you change how you think about yourself, particularly when they are stupid girls who add nothing good to your life.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Her friend = ****block
Your bus buddy = ****block

Ignore them both and get with the girl you like.

However - if thr girl you like is being a **** then make sure you're in a crowded room with your peers, and say the following loudly: (don't shout or act aggressive though)

"WHAT THE **** IS YOUR PROBLEM? GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE! THERE'S NO WAY IN HELL I'D STALK ANYONE, ESPECIALLY NOT SOMEONE LIKE YOU!"

It'll embarass the **** out of her. And hopefully ruin HER rep.
 

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Originally posted by Q-Unit
Her friend = ****block
Your bus buddy = ****block

Ignore them both and get with the girl you like.

However - if thr girl you like is being a **** then make sure you're in a crowded room with your peers, and say the following loudly: (don't shout or act aggressive though)

"WHAT THE **** IS YOUR PROBLEM? GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE! THERE'S NO WAY IN HELL I'D STALK ANYONE, ESPECIALLY NOT SOMEONE LIKE YOU!"

It'll embarass the **** out of her. And hopefully ruin HER rep.
Nah, that'll just add credence to her stalker claim. If you act crazy, it'll just fuel the fire. IGNORE THE BYTCH.
 

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Good job on the moving on no eye contact maneuver you get DJ points for that:up:

that's just a B!tch move on the girls part...i think she was scared or she wass a AFB (average fustrated B!tch) who was too chicken to talk to you so..in return she tried to stick a stalker claim on you to make her feel better...chicks do that if it ever comes up again be confident when someone says it and just be like "No i didn't stalk her" and just brush it off with your chin up.
 

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heh,
Today as I was walking outside to catch the bus, she was there with 3 of her friends and i could sense she was watching me, but I just looked straight ahead :cool:

Thx for the advice guys, i'm pretty much over it all now :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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