"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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hardly know her-calls me a stalker-need urgent advice before 2morw

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And don't forget, just ebcause some stupid girls may or may not think something about you, doesn't make it true.

Don't let their idiot b*llsh*t f*ck up your reality. You know you're not a stalker, or weird, so don't secondguess yourself so easily just because these girls are saying stuff. I did the same kind of thing at your age, hence my reply.

If you live your life being yourself, some people are going to not like you, and that's ok. But don't let anybody's opinions of you change how you think about yourself, particularly when they are stupid girls who add nothing good to your life.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Her friend = ****block
Your bus buddy = ****block

Ignore them both and get with the girl you like.

However - if thr girl you like is being a **** then make sure you're in a crowded room with your peers, and say the following loudly: (don't shout or act aggressive though)

"WHAT THE **** IS YOUR PROBLEM? GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE! THERE'S NO WAY IN HELL I'D STALK ANYONE, ESPECIALLY NOT SOMEONE LIKE YOU!"

It'll embarass the **** out of her. And hopefully ruin HER rep.
 

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Originally posted by Q-Unit
Her friend = ****block
Your bus buddy = ****block

Ignore them both and get with the girl you like.

However - if thr girl you like is being a **** then make sure you're in a crowded room with your peers, and say the following loudly: (don't shout or act aggressive though)

"WHAT THE **** IS YOUR PROBLEM? GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE! THERE'S NO WAY IN HELL I'D STALK ANYONE, ESPECIALLY NOT SOMEONE LIKE YOU!"

It'll embarass the **** out of her. And hopefully ruin HER rep.
Nah, that'll just add credence to her stalker claim. If you act crazy, it'll just fuel the fire. IGNORE THE BYTCH.
 

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Good job on the moving on no eye contact maneuver you get DJ points for that:up:

that's just a B!tch move on the girls part...i think she was scared or she wass a AFB (average fustrated B!tch) who was too chicken to talk to you so..in return she tried to stick a stalker claim on you to make her feel better...chicks do that if it ever comes up again be confident when someone says it and just be like "No i didn't stalk her" and just brush it off with your chin up.
 

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heh,
Today as I was walking outside to catch the bus, she was there with 3 of her friends and i could sense she was watching me, but I just looked straight ahead :cool:

Thx for the advice guys, i'm pretty much over it all now :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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