"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hardly any girls in my classes

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haha, never thought it could happen a second time in a row, but im stuck with hardly any girls in my classes (again), the only 2 HB 8's are in 2 of my classes, 1st and 4th. the other 2 "dateable" girls are 7.5 at the highest

the one in 1st i've already tried to game, she flaked 3 times. strike out. NEXT
the one in 4th got rushed by all these guys, (F#$&in animals) but she's my last option, so what can i do for an approach, there's guys all round her. im talking about the D!ckheads too.

what can i do about this? i know yall will probably say cold approach someone in the hall maybe lunchroom or something, but im not really an expert at meeting people in the hallways or any other place out of the blue
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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what do you do on weekends?

one might assume... nothing...
 

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well JJ understand that i work my *SS off to make money i really dont have time to go out and party all the time like some of you guys.
THE FEW times i get to go do something that doesn't involve cutting boards, and fixing electrical mistakes made by self certified read it on the internet electricians, i spend my time with the buds, go to small parties, maybe the movies once and a while, since there aint really much to do around here.
 

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well i'm not saying you should be out partying every night or anything like that.

i AM saying that in high school i lived on social network game. it's easy as hell.

i was a part of a little clique that included a lot of the good girls of my class. when we'd hang out, random friends of friends would pop up constantly. i dont know if it was coincidence or not ;) ha but this is where my game took root in hs. all i had to do was wait till one i thought was cute showed up at a gathering, get her number, text her a bit, go out with her, and hook up. you being at these situations where her friends invite her to sets you apart as someone who must be worth knowing, otherwise, why would her trusted friends keep you around? as you may or may not know, social proof is huge in high school. this is use of it at its finest.

if you don't have a solid group of friends to introduce you to their cute friends, there's little you can do but try these cold approaches (which i've never tried in high school, but in my head seem at least mildly creepy) . so you work a lot? so get some friends together from there. join some activities. it's high school for god's sake! i understand if you have financial obligations or something like that, but you have your whole life to "work your as5 off to make money."
 

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(JJ) said:
well i'm not saying you should be out partying every night or anything like that.

i AM saying that in high school i lived on social network game. it's easy as hell.

i was a part of a little clique that included a lot of the good girls of my class. when we'd hang out, random friends of friends would pop up constantly. i dont know if it was coincidence or not ;) ha but this is where my game took root in hs. all i had to do was wait till one i thought was cute showed up at a gathering, get her number, text her a bit, go out with her, and hook up. you being at these situations where her friends invite her to sets you apart as someone who must be worth knowing, otherwise, why would her trusted friends keep you around? as you may or may not know, social proof is huge in high school. this is use of it at its finest.

if you don't have a solid group of friends to introduce you to their cute friends, there's little you can do but try these cold approaches (which i've never tried in high school, but in my head seem at least mildly creepy) . so you work a lot? so get some friends together from there. join some activities. it's high school for god's sake! i understand if you have financial obligations or something like that, but you have your whole life to "work your as5 off to make money."

thanks JJ, that's some really useful advice you just gave me, ill take it to heart and put that to good use.
well im going to make time to befriend and chill with the not so good looking girls, and meet better girls through them.

personally i think your right about cold approaches being "mildly creepy" so ill stick to your plan.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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