"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hardly any girls in my classes

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haha, never thought it could happen a second time in a row, but im stuck with hardly any girls in my classes (again), the only 2 HB 8's are in 2 of my classes, 1st and 4th. the other 2 "dateable" girls are 7.5 at the highest

the one in 1st i've already tried to game, she flaked 3 times. strike out. NEXT
the one in 4th got rushed by all these guys, (F#$&in animals) but she's my last option, so what can i do for an approach, there's guys all round her. im talking about the D!ckheads too.

what can i do about this? i know yall will probably say cold approach someone in the hall maybe lunchroom or something, but im not really an expert at meeting people in the hallways or any other place out of the blue
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what do you do on weekends?

one might assume... nothing...
 

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well JJ understand that i work my *SS off to make money i really dont have time to go out and party all the time like some of you guys.
THE FEW times i get to go do something that doesn't involve cutting boards, and fixing electrical mistakes made by self certified read it on the internet electricians, i spend my time with the buds, go to small parties, maybe the movies once and a while, since there aint really much to do around here.
 

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well i'm not saying you should be out partying every night or anything like that.

i AM saying that in high school i lived on social network game. it's easy as hell.

i was a part of a little clique that included a lot of the good girls of my class. when we'd hang out, random friends of friends would pop up constantly. i dont know if it was coincidence or not ;) ha but this is where my game took root in hs. all i had to do was wait till one i thought was cute showed up at a gathering, get her number, text her a bit, go out with her, and hook up. you being at these situations where her friends invite her to sets you apart as someone who must be worth knowing, otherwise, why would her trusted friends keep you around? as you may or may not know, social proof is huge in high school. this is use of it at its finest.

if you don't have a solid group of friends to introduce you to their cute friends, there's little you can do but try these cold approaches (which i've never tried in high school, but in my head seem at least mildly creepy) . so you work a lot? so get some friends together from there. join some activities. it's high school for god's sake! i understand if you have financial obligations or something like that, but you have your whole life to "work your as5 off to make money."
 

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(JJ) said:
well i'm not saying you should be out partying every night or anything like that.

i AM saying that in high school i lived on social network game. it's easy as hell.

i was a part of a little clique that included a lot of the good girls of my class. when we'd hang out, random friends of friends would pop up constantly. i dont know if it was coincidence or not ;) ha but this is where my game took root in hs. all i had to do was wait till one i thought was cute showed up at a gathering, get her number, text her a bit, go out with her, and hook up. you being at these situations where her friends invite her to sets you apart as someone who must be worth knowing, otherwise, why would her trusted friends keep you around? as you may or may not know, social proof is huge in high school. this is use of it at its finest.

if you don't have a solid group of friends to introduce you to their cute friends, there's little you can do but try these cold approaches (which i've never tried in high school, but in my head seem at least mildly creepy) . so you work a lot? so get some friends together from there. join some activities. it's high school for god's sake! i understand if you have financial obligations or something like that, but you have your whole life to "work your as5 off to make money."

thanks JJ, that's some really useful advice you just gave me, ill take it to heart and put that to good use.
well im going to make time to befriend and chill with the not so good looking girls, and meet better girls through them.

personally i think your right about cold approaches being "mildly creepy" so ill stick to your plan.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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