What happen to the no bullsh1t, no mess with me attitude! Who gives a sh1t what he, she, they think. Get what you fvcking want. Oh yea, you might mess it up, but who gives a sh1t, someone else might, but why would you? You aint no insecure pu$$y with an ego, or are you? Angry that you messed up now aren’t you, get your d1ck out & fvck it, show how much you give a sh1t & parade your d1ck around Disneyland! & if you do give a sh1t then you might as well go kill yourself, because that’s not living.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Harden Up
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
lorekeeper
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Oddly enough, I feel like I can "TTFU" lately about ANYTHING, EXCEPT women 
I was browsing the web and fell across this wallpaper, it was very simple.
it was a camera man in one of those boats landing on the beaches of Normandy, the door was open and they were running out. It was a very moving picture, and in the sky written in plain white font it said: "Toughen the **** up."
I get hurt in football, I need one more rep in the gym, I feel sad or weak or anything; that one image pops into my head and I just do it.
edit: had to find that picture again, searched and found it: http://i.imgur.com/0B7l8.jpg it's now my desktop.
I was browsing the web and fell across this wallpaper, it was very simple.
it was a camera man in one of those boats landing on the beaches of Normandy, the door was open and they were running out. It was a very moving picture, and in the sky written in plain white font it said: "Toughen the **** up."
I get hurt in football, I need one more rep in the gym, I feel sad or weak or anything; that one image pops into my head and I just do it.
edit: had to find that picture again, searched and found it: http://i.imgur.com/0B7l8.jpg it's now my desktop.
Fantastic Mr. Fox
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Generally, this advice works. But if your brain chemistry is f*cked and you need some serious anti-depressants then I'd recommend doing that as part of the process of toughening up. After all, everything is a process that takes time, and some people need to take those extra steps to get out of their ruts.
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The advice is sound. Pity it wasn't articulated better.
Yes, it's important to fully realise that your time in the dating arena is not limitless. If you are reasonably attractive then the "no bull****" approach is the best one. Don't let a woman control you, there will always be another around the corner.
Yes, it's important to fully realise that your time in the dating arena is not limitless. If you are reasonably attractive then the "no bull****" approach is the best one. Don't let a woman control you, there will always be another around the corner.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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The premise of this post is good, but I spent a week in jail the last time I pulled my d1ck out at Disneyland. Apparently it's a "family" establishment. Psh! Prudes.