What happen to the no bullsh1t, no mess with me attitude! Who gives a sh1t what he, she, they think. Get what you fvcking want. Oh yea, you might mess it up, but who gives a sh1t, someone else might, but why would you? You aint no insecure pu$$y with an ego, or are you? Angry that you messed up now aren’t you, get your d1ck out & fvck it, show how much you give a sh1t & parade your d1ck around Disneyland! & if you do give a sh1t then you might as well go kill yourself, because that’s not living.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Harden Up
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
lorekeeper
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Oddly enough, I feel like I can "TTFU" lately about ANYTHING, EXCEPT women 
I was browsing the web and fell across this wallpaper, it was very simple.
it was a camera man in one of those boats landing on the beaches of Normandy, the door was open and they were running out. It was a very moving picture, and in the sky written in plain white font it said: "Toughen the **** up."
I get hurt in football, I need one more rep in the gym, I feel sad or weak or anything; that one image pops into my head and I just do it.
edit: had to find that picture again, searched and found it: http://i.imgur.com/0B7l8.jpg it's now my desktop.
I was browsing the web and fell across this wallpaper, it was very simple.
it was a camera man in one of those boats landing on the beaches of Normandy, the door was open and they were running out. It was a very moving picture, and in the sky written in plain white font it said: "Toughen the **** up."
I get hurt in football, I need one more rep in the gym, I feel sad or weak or anything; that one image pops into my head and I just do it.
edit: had to find that picture again, searched and found it: http://i.imgur.com/0B7l8.jpg it's now my desktop.
Fantastic Mr. Fox
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Generally, this advice works. But if your brain chemistry is f*cked and you need some serious anti-depressants then I'd recommend doing that as part of the process of toughening up. After all, everything is a process that takes time, and some people need to take those extra steps to get out of their ruts.
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The advice is sound. Pity it wasn't articulated better.
Yes, it's important to fully realise that your time in the dating arena is not limitless. If you are reasonably attractive then the "no bull****" approach is the best one. Don't let a woman control you, there will always be another around the corner.
Yes, it's important to fully realise that your time in the dating arena is not limitless. If you are reasonably attractive then the "no bull****" approach is the best one. Don't let a woman control you, there will always be another around the corner.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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The premise of this post is good, but I spent a week in jail the last time I pulled my d1ck out at Disneyland. Apparently it's a "family" establishment. Psh! Prudes.