"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hard to get

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BGMan

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You need to be more specific. I can tell there's a certain young lady you have in mind, so write some about her and what the situation is.

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am4591

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Hangs out--are these regular dates or what? What is her attitude when you're together? If you could give some more details....

When a girl plays hard to get, I usually do the same--back off, don't talk to her much, etc. Sometimes this works for me, sometimes it doesn't. Some will eventually start conversations with me again, asking why I don't talk to them anymore. Others don't seem to give a rat's ass.
 

htemorp

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Doesn't sound like hard to get, sound like she isn't interested...haha.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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dannyboy

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I know she want's me. Trust me. Just looking for tips on keeping it that way.
 

RazzleDazzle

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Just don't play the game. If she acts hard to get, get what you want. If you want to date her than ask her out. If she says no or something like "not ready for a relationship". Say ok and drop her. Either she will come after you in a few days, weeks, minutes who knows. Otherwise if she shafts you still, forget about her.

She ain't worth your time. Especially 1 time every two weeks.
 
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