“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hard to get

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

BGMan

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You need to be more specific. I can tell there's a certain young lady you have in mind, so write some about her and what the situation is.

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am4591

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Hangs out--are these regular dates or what? What is her attitude when you're together? If you could give some more details....

When a girl plays hard to get, I usually do the same--back off, don't talk to her much, etc. Sometimes this works for me, sometimes it doesn't. Some will eventually start conversations with me again, asking why I don't talk to them anymore. Others don't seem to give a rat's ass.
 

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Doesn't sound like hard to get, sound like she isn't interested...haha.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I know she want's me. Trust me. Just looking for tips on keeping it that way.
 

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Just don't play the game. If she acts hard to get, get what you want. If you want to date her than ask her out. If she says no or something like "not ready for a relationship". Say ok and drop her. Either she will come after you in a few days, weeks, minutes who knows. Otherwise if she shafts you still, forget about her.

She ain't worth your time. Especially 1 time every two weeks.
 
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