She says she dosent wanna go to the mall because shes been there all week for christmas shopping and boxing day (the movie theaters are at the mall as well). and right now its winter so its not like i can just take her outside and it will be good, its too cold even for me. ive only been on a date with her once but weve been talking for a month and i figure to ask her to come to my place. but im thinking what if she says no because maybe shes not that comfortable? im still going to ask her but im wondering what would be a good thing to say if she says no?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Hard To Figure Out A Place To Take Her...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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dude, she hates you. if she liked you she would go ANYWHERE with you. a trip to the neighborhood dumpster would sound groovy.
Why not take her out skating. It's always a good date for winter time, and if she's bad then at some point she will be grabbing on to you or holding you hand. This is assuming you know how to skate though haha. If not, I don't know ask her out to lunch or something. I don't think its that hard to find a place.
At this point in the "relationship" don't compromise with her. Say this is where we are going and if she doesn't want to come, oh well. Tell her you are still going. She is testing you and you are falling into her trap. Be a man stand up and say we are going to have fun here, lets go and we'll have the best time of our lives at "insert your place here". Have fun.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Coffee, ice cream/dessert, or drinks make a simple mini-date. Then you can suggest getting a movie and taking it back to your place. Put the emphasis on a particular movie that you especially want to rent - not on getting her back to your place. Always have some pretense as to why she is in your house, other than sex. 'Watch a movie' has become a euphemism for 'go home and fvck.'
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Me being the guy that I am, wouldn't "TAKE" her anywhere. Instead I'll invite her to join me (meet up with me) where ever I go (i.e. Pool Hall, Bar) and if she doesn't show I'm still going to have fun regardless.