She says she dosent wanna go to the mall because shes been there all week for christmas shopping and boxing day (the movie theaters are at the mall as well). and right now its winter so its not like i can just take her outside and it will be good, its too cold even for me. ive only been on a date with her once but weve been talking for a month and i figure to ask her to come to my place. but im thinking what if she says no because maybe shes not that comfortable? im still going to ask her but im wondering what would be a good thing to say if she says no?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hard To Figure Out A Place To Take Her...
- Thread starter matygee
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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dude, she hates you. if she liked you she would go ANYWHERE with you. a trip to the neighborhood dumpster would sound groovy.
Why not take her out skating. It's always a good date for winter time, and if she's bad then at some point she will be grabbing on to you or holding you hand. This is assuming you know how to skate though haha. If not, I don't know ask her out to lunch or something. I don't think its that hard to find a place.
At this point in the "relationship" don't compromise with her. Say this is where we are going and if she doesn't want to come, oh well. Tell her you are still going. She is testing you and you are falling into her trap. Be a man stand up and say we are going to have fun here, lets go and we'll have the best time of our lives at "insert your place here". Have fun.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Coffee, ice cream/dessert, or drinks make a simple mini-date. Then you can suggest getting a movie and taking it back to your place. Put the emphasis on a particular movie that you especially want to rent - not on getting her back to your place. Always have some pretense as to why she is in your house, other than sex. 'Watch a movie' has become a euphemism for 'go home and fvck.'
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Me being the guy that I am, wouldn't "TAKE" her anywhere. Instead I'll invite her to join me (meet up with me) where ever I go (i.e. Pool Hall, Bar) and if she doesn't show I'm still going to have fun regardless.