Hard time finding a hobby

[Tempest]

I'm having a tough time finding a SOLID hobby/interest.

Right now, I work full-time doing sales/marketing. It sucks, but it allows me to go clubbing 4 nights a week. I'm out in the field a solid 4 nights a week, and I'm also part-time taking a marketing class. I also exercise 5 days a week.

So, this is my life:
- PUA (clubbing, shopping, girls)
- Sales/Marketing Job
- Marketing Student
- Exercise 5 days a week
- Write in journal

So, that's it. Pretty boring. I don't feel like a complete person, and I think it's hurting my game. My problem is finding a GOOD hobby that I enjoy. I love doing PU, it's an essential part of my life. I'm obsessed with it... and read about it and I'm trying to improve all the time. But I need something more. I need an identity. One of my friend is a DJ, hockey player... another a soccer play... another an artist... another a film producer. I want to be a promoter, but that isn't until 2 years in the future.

I've tried musical instruments, soccer, basketball, martial arts, and some other sports. But I can't find anything that just *clicks* and that I really enjoy.

I did computers for 5 years of my life, but dropped it because it's lame.

Can you guys recommend anything? Nothing like "i listen to music" or garbage like that.

Thanks

 

[Moving_Target]

Join a car club and try out autocrossing...

 

[October]

Exercising is a pretty good hobby, although I see you already have that written down.

Here's some stuff I can think of:

Shooting pool, golf, swimming, cars, poker, carpentry, stocks, electronics, surfing (if you live by water), or studying some interesting subject (psychology, physics, philosophy, or stuff like that. My friend studies dreams). You could try things outdoors like camping or hiking and that kind of stuff. There's a lot out there, but that's about all I got, hope it helps.

By the way, what musical instruments did you try out? I played piano and I violin and I didn't like them, but then I picked up the french horn and I like it a lot.

 

[Hot Ice]

Try extreme sports.. They'll give you thrills.

 

[Stud]

i'm sort of in the same boat as you. i have no real hobby to spend some time on. just in the past couple days i've realized, the only way to find a hobby is to go out and try everything YOU look interested in. dont do something just because you think the girls will like it. so get out there and try something new..what do you have to lose?

 

[legolas]

you don't need a hobby. you need a mission!!! Like "I want to be rich by the time I'm 40"

 

[Paintballguy]

My problem is I don't have enough time for all my hobbies.

 

[ShizamDaMan]

Pickup an instrument.

 

[S0LID]

learn party tricks!

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

Instead of just exercising why dont you start a sport and set yourself some goals there?

 

[dentalfloss]

im pretty sure exercising 5 times a week constitutes a hobby...

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

you are trying to play sports that are games where the object is to score points. You say you like ot excersize 5 days a week so it would make more sense to try a sport where the emphasis is on speed and endurance and basicly getting fitter such as cycling swimming or running.

 

[ryan killa]

Perhaps try chess, or spades(card game). If you are in the US, there is a nationwide ranking system, and there are always clubs, etc. But maybe you don't want to meet geeks. j/k

 

[aftershock]

Internet poker is a pretty good hobby.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Originally posted by aftershock
Internet poker is a pretty good hobby.

So is being an online Trekie/Treker, on just a Trekie, period. But do you really want to stop getting laid?

As stated before, musical instrument, any, even just learning how to sing good.

Learn a prop, palmistry, tarot, dream interpretation, handwriting analysis (my favorite).

 

[Paintballguy]

Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
So is being an online Trekie/Treker, on just a Trekie, period. But do you really want to stop getting laid?

As stated before, musical instrument, any, even just learning how to sing good.

I agree.... I can play bass and drums. Actually in the process of starting a band with a few friends. Women do seem to like guys who can play a musical instrument.