“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Happy New Year!

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Wishing you all happy new year!

I have no new year's resolution, but many do and I'm always curious, what's yours?

Sorry, my timezone is UTC+1.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I rarely do new years resolutions either. Figured what the heck, I'll do one this year.
I've been real slack this past year. I've accumulated too much clutter and haven't done any deep cleaning. I've also chosen to work part time this year (I can live on it, but can't save much). 2021, I plan to reverse my bad habits of 2020.
 

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- Work out more consistently
- volunteer more, help out the homeless, needy and sheltered animals.
- Keep working on my book of Poems.

Have a Good one tonight guys if you're celebrating. Make sure to don't drink and drive/ drive high. Get a designated driver lol cheers.
 

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I've accumulated too much clutter and haven't done any deep cleaning.
I've usually been bad with this, but this year I have thrown out a lot of stuff I don't need (great lockdown activity). It doesn't pain me to throw stuff away, what pains me is that at some point I wasted money getting stuff I didn't use.

This reminds me that I might actually have a new year's resolution after all, that is to save at least $1k (converted from local currency) every month this year (with plans to extend it to 2022) into a global index fund. In 2020 I've cut down on living expenses that I won't miss, 2020 was the year I explored and planned my financial future. I discovered the FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early) movement, while I don't know about retiring early I do know that I want to be financially independent. Make the money work for me rather than work for money.
 

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2020 was the best hand I've ever been dealt. Hands the f uck down. I knew I was going to be switching careers this year (as far back as 2017) when my boys gave me a heads up to start saving massively. When 2018 came around, I got transferred to Europe, began saving that $ and boxing again. By the time I caught the rona in Feb 2020, my bank account and my biceps (and my back) had blown up in size. The sh!t ppl like to hate on but I never cared much for. I've never been this well off or jacked and donated endlessly in 2020 to Cambridge food bank, wounded firefighter centers, salvation army, etc.

I struggled for almost a decade and now I'm doing amazing as the rest of the world burns around me, makes sense. To compound all of that, I was finally offered a bonus to stay in my career 3 more years part-time and a scholarship from the city my school is in that I start in 2021 (DAFUQ), on top of the fact that I already earned paid education/housing/utilities. No need to set resolutions but:
- Take and pass all my courses, travel the U.S. a little more, continue to box/condition/deadlift a fvck ton
- Use this $600 refund to debauch. Maybe buy a "gold" watch for $599.99 with it so I can keep flexing on all these local bigots, ****heads, libs, femininas and holier than thou fakes as a buff, islander "brown" guy. Trust me, the tension was there leading up to BREXIT and now that I'm back in the U.S. it's the same BS all over again.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wishing you all happy new year!

I have no new year's resolution, but many do and I'm always curious, what's yours?

Sorry, my timezone is UTC+1.
Happy New Year! No new resolutions, just keep working on everything I've already written that I'm working on.
 

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2020 was the best hand I've ever been dealt. Hands the f uck down. I knew I was going to be switching careers this year (as far back as 2017) when my boys gave me a heads up to start saving massively. When 2018 came around, I got transferred to Europe, began saving that $ and boxing again. By the time I caught the rona in Feb 2020, my bank account and my biceps (and my back) had blown up in size. The sh!t ppl like to hate on but I never cared much for. I've never been this well off or jacked and donated endlessly in 2020 to Cambridge food bank, wounded firefighter centers, salvation army, etc.

I struggled for almost a decade and now I'm doing amazing as the rest of the world burns around me, makes sense. To compound all of that, I was finally offered a bonus to stay in my career 3 more years part-time and a scholarship from the city my school is in that I start in 2021 (DAFUQ), on top of the fact that I already earned paid education/housing/utilities. No need to set resolutions but:
- Take and pass all my courses, travel the U.S. a little more, continue to box/condition/deadlift a fvck ton
- Use this $600 refund to debauch. Maybe buy a "gold" watch for $599.99 with it so I can keep flexing on all these local bigots, ****heads, libs, femininas and holier than thou fakes as a buff, islander "brown" guy. Trust me, the tension was there leading up to BREXIT and now that I'm back in the U.S. it's the same BS all over again.
Are you Filipino ? Indonesian? Hawaiian? Etc. what’s your ethnicity? Just wondering
 

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Are you Filipino ? Indonesian? Hawaiian? Etc. what’s your ethnicity? Just wondering
Half-Filipino, quarter Mex, quarter Caucasian (it just doesn't show, unlike my brother and mother). It is what it is. They see me in uniform and kiss a$s pretty good/show visual dread or fear (OMF Martial Law is here!), but in regular street clothing...lmao, I might as well start carrying a Twisted Tea instead of my S&W.
 
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