Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Happy New Year! Be more positive this coming year

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Im about to go see my lady friend to ring in the new year.

Just thought Id make some well wishes for some of the guys here who have been down in their luck in any aspect of their life. Make a plan, type it up, put it in a few places of your house and remind yourself every day of your goals.

That's what Im going to do with my career, fitness, friends, etc. Right now Ive been studying hard to get some certification needed for a career switch...and its taken my time away from friends and fitness. Itll pay off greatly in the end though.

Im gonna write up some goals tomorrow for different things, and put reminders all over the house so I dont slack. I find that motivational reminders of where I want to end up, help keep me on track.

Let's see some more positivity here on SS for the next year. Im feeling optimistic. And heck, it could be because Ive seemingly found a sane supportive woman that Ive been dating for 2 months now.

Goodbye 2014, hello 2015.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I feel great tonight. At midnight I "dropped the ball" by taking a dump and sh|tting on the year before it sh|ts on me. It felt good. Not going to let 2015 stress me out so much... 2012 and 2013 were he||. 2014 was a little better but still quite a bit of stress going on. In 2015 I am not going to mention my ex's name to anyone the entire year, the one I dumped a few months ago. People keep wanting to talk about her and our breakup and I am not going to discuss her with anyone no matter who it is. Happy new year all!!
 
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logicallefty said:
I feel great tonight. At midnight I "dropped the ball" by taking a dump and sh|tting on the year before it sh|ts on me. It felt good. Not going to let 2015 stress me out so much... 2012 and 2013 were he||. 2014 was a little better but still quite a bit of stress going on. In 2015 I am not going to mention my ex's name to anyone the entire year, the one I dumped a few months ago. People keep wanting to talk about her and our breakup and I am not going to discuss her with anyone no matter who it is. Happy new year all!!
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That sounds good bro.

Gotta keep your mind positive if youre life's going to be positive
 
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