"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Happy New Year! Be more positive this coming year

Jaylan

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Im about to go see my lady friend to ring in the new year.

Just thought Id make some well wishes for some of the guys here who have been down in their luck in any aspect of their life. Make a plan, type it up, put it in a few places of your house and remind yourself every day of your goals.

That's what Im going to do with my career, fitness, friends, etc. Right now Ive been studying hard to get some certification needed for a career switch...and its taken my time away from friends and fitness. Itll pay off greatly in the end though.

Im gonna write up some goals tomorrow for different things, and put reminders all over the house so I dont slack. I find that motivational reminders of where I want to end up, help keep me on track.

Let's see some more positivity here on SS for the next year. Im feeling optimistic. And heck, it could be because Ive seemingly found a sane supportive woman that Ive been dating for 2 months now.

Goodbye 2014, hello 2015.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I feel great tonight. At midnight I "dropped the ball" by taking a dump and sh|tting on the year before it sh|ts on me. It felt good. Not going to let 2015 stress me out so much... 2012 and 2013 were he||. 2014 was a little better but still quite a bit of stress going on. In 2015 I am not going to mention my ex's name to anyone the entire year, the one I dumped a few months ago. People keep wanting to talk about her and our breakup and I am not going to discuss her with anyone no matter who it is. Happy new year all!!
 

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logicallefty said:
I feel great tonight. At midnight I "dropped the ball" by taking a dump and sh|tting on the year before it sh|ts on me. It felt good. Not going to let 2015 stress me out so much... 2012 and 2013 were he||. 2014 was a little better but still quite a bit of stress going on. In 2015 I am not going to mention my ex's name to anyone the entire year, the one I dumped a few months ago. People keep wanting to talk about her and our breakup and I am not going to discuss her with anyone no matter who it is. Happy new year all!!
That sounds good bro.

Gotta keep your mind positive if youre life's going to be positive
 
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