"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Happy New Year! Be more positive this coming year

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Im about to go see my lady friend to ring in the new year.

Just thought Id make some well wishes for some of the guys here who have been down in their luck in any aspect of their life. Make a plan, type it up, put it in a few places of your house and remind yourself every day of your goals.

That's what Im going to do with my career, fitness, friends, etc. Right now Ive been studying hard to get some certification needed for a career switch...and its taken my time away from friends and fitness. Itll pay off greatly in the end though.

Im gonna write up some goals tomorrow for different things, and put reminders all over the house so I dont slack. I find that motivational reminders of where I want to end up, help keep me on track.

Let's see some more positivity here on SS for the next year. Im feeling optimistic. And heck, it could be because Ive seemingly found a sane supportive woman that Ive been dating for 2 months now.

Goodbye 2014, hello 2015.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I feel great tonight. At midnight I "dropped the ball" by taking a dump and sh|tting on the year before it sh|ts on me. It felt good. Not going to let 2015 stress me out so much... 2012 and 2013 were he||. 2014 was a little better but still quite a bit of stress going on. In 2015 I am not going to mention my ex's name to anyone the entire year, the one I dumped a few months ago. People keep wanting to talk about her and our breakup and I am not going to discuss her with anyone no matter who it is. Happy new year all!!
 
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logicallefty said:
I feel great tonight. At midnight I "dropped the ball" by taking a dump and sh|tting on the year before it sh|ts on me. It felt good. Not going to let 2015 stress me out so much... 2012 and 2013 were he||. 2014 was a little better but still quite a bit of stress going on. In 2015 I am not going to mention my ex's name to anyone the entire year, the one I dumped a few months ago. People keep wanting to talk about her and our breakup and I am not going to discuss her with anyone no matter who it is. Happy new year all!!
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That sounds good bro.

Gotta keep your mind positive if youre life's going to be positive
 
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