Happy birthday wish to a girl you cared about but never got?

[alpha_ash]

One of the girls I met, we actually became pretty good friends and she would play wingman for me at times. However after some fallout (stupid drama) I stopped hanging out with her and went NC Even when she would invite me out.

I haven't seen her in about 6-7 weeks now and I'm wondering whether to break NC to wish her happy birthday. If so then how should I phrase it? Just "happy birthday" or "hey beautiful happy birthday" or "happy birthday, hope its a good one."

We actually ended up become good friends for that short period of time, so I need to know how to proceed in this situation. Please assist. I'm thinking I shouldn't break NC, but I also have nothing against her inside so I don't know for sure. Guide me one way or another and please provide an explanation.

Thank you all!
<3 SS

 

[foreverAFC]

lol.....

 

[SamTheHobit]

Do whatever you want, you don't need approval from a bunch of Internet strangers.

 

[alpha_ash]

I do need approval because I don't want to do something that will make me look or feel weak afterwards. Plus this is why we come here to get advice before taking questionable action. I'm questioning it and I'm sure the experts here can provide support for or against my actions.

We all know that in certain situations, guys don't think straight. This may be one of them for me.

 

[nroug7]

I do need approval because I don't want to do something that will make me look or feel weak afterwards. Plus this is why we come here to get advice before taking questionable action. I'm questioning it and I'm sure the experts here can provide support for or against my actions.

We all know that in certain situations, guys don't think straight. This may be one of them for me.

You are over thinking it. Do you feel like it will make you look or feel weak afterwards? Then don't do it. But if you can come out of it feeling awesome and even learn a thing or two, full steam ahead.

 

[SgtSplacker]

If you like this girl make passes at her, try to kiss her. MAKE HER NC YOU... if anything. You are just being an AFC not letting her know how you feel about her. If you are going to go for her, have expectations make sure she is making you happy.

As far as her bday goes you need to make a decision on whether you are going to go for this girl or not. If the answer is yes, then contact her and try to set something up. If the answer is no, then leave her alone you will just confuse her.

If the idea is just to wish her a happy bday and resume NC then don't contact her at all.

If you have no feelings for this girl then what are you doing here exactly? Leave her alone!

 

[bigneil]

I tried this recently and she didn't even thank me. Besides, Facebook ruined birthdays forever now that everyone gets a reminder and girls get 2000 birthday greetings yet pretend they are really that popular.

 

[SamTheHobit]

I tried this recently and she didn't even thank me. Besides, Facebook ruined birthdays forever now that everyone gets a reminder and girls get 2000 birthday greetings yet pretend they are really that popular.

Totally agreed.