DumpaLumpagus
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Happiness is...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Happiness is...
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
diplomatic_lies
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Happiness is whatever makes you happy.
Aristotle was a dumba$$.
Aristotle was a dumba$$.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sophomakhos
Don Juan
Happiness is being satisfied with what you've got. That doesn't mean that you shouldn't try anything new of course, because that would become boring, and thus you wouldn't be satisfied with what you have. Still, there is a line in one of the Roman poet Horace's Odes that goes thus:
The less I desire, the more I seem to have.
Judge for yourself, ultimately.
The less I desire, the more I seem to have.
Judge for yourself, ultimately.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
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SELF-MASTERY
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Happiness is situational.
Happiness is not a state of mind. You can't choose to be happy when you're hurt. It's just plain denial.
To explain happiness is like trying to explain what love is.
There is no answer.
However, I do somewhat agree with Aristotle when he says that it might be a process where we put value in what we perceive to make us happy and trying to attain it.
To explain happiness is like trying to explain what love is.
There is no answer.
However, I do somewhat agree with Aristotle when he says that it might be a process where we put value in what we perceive to make us happy and trying to attain it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DumpaLumpagus
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...A full tank of gas in my tank (BMW), no traffic, a pretty girl in the passenger seat, and a clear mountain road.
...Finding more reason for the journey than the destination, for we never grow when we stagnate in one place too long.
...Always evolving because a new experience expands our perception of time, which is really all we have.
My thoughts
...Finding more reason for the journey than the destination, for we never grow when we stagnate in one place too long.
...Always evolving because a new experience expands our perception of time, which is really all we have.
My thoughts
VoiceofReason
Don Juan
double post...damn.
My bad...
My bad...
VoiceofReason
Don Juan
...a warm gun. Duh.
Tell me someone gets this, please...
Tell me someone gets this, please...
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
^ it's from a cool song (i'm having a brain fart right now so I don't remember the name)
Happiness is when you bust a nut on a snotty b*tches face.
Happiness is when you bust a nut on a snotty b*tches face.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
Happyness is self esteem according to Dr Paul on Deep Inner Game.
Fulfillment = Happiness + Success + Freedom
Fulfillment = Happiness + Success + Freedom
DumpaLumpagus
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Bump!
Happiness is seeing Paris Hilton *ucked in the ass!
Happiness is seeing Paris Hilton *ucked in the ass!