She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes, you are very right. Simple people tend to be easy to please. Give a simple man a fat broad to bang, cheap porn, cheap fatty food, football, and beer. He is yours. He will even send his horny teenage son off to a place he can't find on a map to get his face burned off by people who have never bothered his family.Akuma said:i'm not american (so i may be wrong), but aren't the unhappiest states also the richest and most educated?
BigJimbo said:Yes, you are very right. Simple people tend to be easy to please. Give a simple man a fat broad to bang, cheap porn, cheap fatty food, football, and beer. He is yours. He will even send his horny teenage son off to a place he can't find on a map to get his face burned off by people who have never bothered his family.
Weather has little to do with it. Basically intelligence. Alaska is cold as f--- and is very happy. Also very stupid.
http://www.top50states.com/average-iq-score.html
Smartest States. Look at that list! It is almost the inverse of happiness.
BigJimbo said:Simple people tend to be easy to please. Give a simple man a fat broad to bang, cheap porn, cheap fatty food, football, and beer. He is yours.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
speakeasy said:Interesting that the top ten happy states are mostly red states and the most the bottom ten are blue states. Wonder why that is? Ignorance is bliss?
I have to say I though California would be higher with our great weather, beaches and activities.
Being a hedonist means seeking out the pleasures of life. Enjoying the finer things. America is the farthest from a hedonistic paradise than I can imagine. Hedonism has NOTHING to do with sex or drinking. Nothing. Americans have no concept for quality. It is all about quantity. Give you an example. An Italian would prefer one night with a beautiful virginal girl in a grand hotel over 1,000 middle-aged tramps in a ****-- apartment. An American wouldn't. Americans tend to buy lots of cheap clothing, eat low quality food in great quantities, and have large cheap homes. Total opposite of most parts of the world. The greatest example is Japan.TyTe`EyEz said:You're one to talk. You always try to come off as some sort of hedonist - until Americans come up. Then you become the most pretentious ****** on this forum.
Being a hedonist means seeking out the pleasures of life. Enjoying the finer things. America is the farthest from a hedonistic paradise than I can imagine. Hedonism has NOTHING to do with sex or drinking. Nothing. Americans have no concept for quality. It is all about quantity. Give you an example. An Italian would prefer one night with a beautiful virginal girl in a grand hotel over 1,000 middle-aged tramps in a ****-- apartment. An American wouldn't. Americans tend to buy lots of cheap clothing, eat low quality food in great quantities, and have large cheap homes. Total opposite of most parts of the world. The greatest example is Japan.TyTe`EyEz said:You're one to talk. You always try to come off as some sort of hedonist - until Americans come up. Then you become the most pretentious ****** on this forum.
I dont know why cordon says you and allbeef are the same person.???BigJimbo said:Being a hedonist means seeking out the pleasures of life. Enjoying the finer things. America is the farthest from a hedonistic paradise than I can imagine. Hedonism has NOTHING to do with sex or drinking. Nothing. Americans have no concept for quality. It is all about quantity. Give you an example. An Italian would prefer one night with a beautiful virginal girl in a grand hotel over 1,000 middle-aged tramps in a ****-- apartment. An American wouldn't. Americans tend to buy lots of cheap clothing, eat low quality food in great quantities, and have large cheap homes. Total opposite of most parts of the world. The greatest example is Japan.
I will take it another step. Ask anyone who travels. Outside of Anglo countries college aged girls don't go to cafes and study! They go to enjoy themselves. Maybe show off, but not study.
On the other hand, maybe Middle Americans are hedonists. Just hedonists with no tastes or respect for quality. Explains your girlfriends. Explains your love for tramps and mothers.
snowdog said:^pigeon sh*t lmao
To be honest, I wouldn't want to live in a big city for long. Maybe a few years, but not more than that. I like having space around me. Right now I'm living in west Florida (aka South Alabama) for half a year and I'm loving it. I like the fact that people are way more laid back, they are willing to help one another and there's way less bullsh*t going on. I went out a bunch of times now and there are way less macho douchebags around. People are just friendly and want to have a good time.
I lived right next to Rotterdam my entire life, and I can't stand the place anymore. People are so ****ing bitter and cranky. Even on a nice sunny day everyone walks around like they just came from a funeral.
I went to NYC a couple of times and that place is awesome. Of course, I only saw the nice areas. I wouldn't want to live in Harlem or something.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Trust me, they are the same guy. He just takes on a different persona for each. I really think he's a 48 year old bald guy living in his parents basement in Topeka Kansas.BBbardot said:I dont know why cordon says you and allbeef are the same person.???
you're very different
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Cordon! I just noticed you threw out Serge Gainsbourgs' name in a post. Wow, so you do read my stuff. Nice. Send me a message and I can hook you up with lots of Serge Gainsbourg type of media. I also like Alizee, Kate Ryan, and even some of the old Lorie stuff. In case you didn't know. Lorie was like Brittany Spears and Alizee was a bit more Frenchie. Both had their place. Kate Ryan is Dutch and sings in accented French. She is still huge in Quebec.BBbardot said:I dont know why cordon says you and allbeef are the same person.???
you're very different
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Would LOVE to violate Alizee in every orifice. Never heard of the others you mentioned.BigJimbo said:Cordon! I just noticed you threw out Serge Gainsbourgs' name in a post. Wow, so you do read my stuff. Nice. Send me a message and I can hook you up with lots of Serge Gainsbourg type of media. I also like Alizee, Kate Ryan, and even some of the old Lorie stuff. In case you didn't know. Lorie was like Brittany Spears and Alizee was a bit more Frenchie. Both had their place. Kate Ryan is Dutch and sings in accented French. She is still huge in Quebec.
Here is a name - Mylene Farmer. She basically is behind Alizee and Kate Ryan (songs and such). She is weird as f--- though.
cordoncordon said:Would LOVE to violate Alizee in every orifice. Never heard of the others you mentioned.
I take it this is mynameisnobody/bluntmaster/etc again lol? I don't even know what that comment has to do with what I said. You seem fixated on what I make and do lol. You bring it up even when its not the topic of conversation.Hymen Breaker said:Ofcourse you are happy Cordon. You have a billion dollars right? You should be happy anywhere.
And you never answered my question. Have you cheated on your Asian girl yet? Because you preach how you are a great guy who never cheats.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
cordoncordon said:I take it this is mynameisnobody/bluntmaster/etc again lol? I don't even know what that comment has to do with what I said. You seem fixated on what I make and do lol. You bring it up even when its not the topic of conversation.
snowdog said:lol @ the b1tch fights going on here. You guys are killing me.
You're a mean drunk.Hymen Breaker said:Who cares what you think? Nobody does.
I'm just bringing up the fact how on NLG (RIP) Cordon paraded around like some upstanding great citizen, and talked down to people who cheated. And then he was busted for cheating the whole time he was posting down to people.
He was full of sh!t and he never owned up to it. It's time to own up. But he keeps ignoring it so that's all I need to know.
Cordon is like those preachers on TV who say "open up your purses, open up your wallet, it's your time to be SAVEEEEEED!" and then behind the scenes he is preaching to the Devil.
cordoncordon said:You're a mean drunk.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.