That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yes, you are very right. Simple people tend to be easy to please. Give a simple man a fat broad to bang, cheap porn, cheap fatty food, football, and beer. He is yours. He will even send his horny teenage son off to a place he can't find on a map to get his face burned off by people who have never bothered his family.Akuma said:i'm not american (so i may be wrong), but aren't the unhappiest states also the richest and most educated?
BigJimbo said:Yes, you are very right. Simple people tend to be easy to please. Give a simple man a fat broad to bang, cheap porn, cheap fatty food, football, and beer. He is yours. He will even send his horny teenage son off to a place he can't find on a map to get his face burned off by people who have never bothered his family.
Weather has little to do with it. Basically intelligence. Alaska is cold as f--- and is very happy. Also very stupid.
http://www.top50states.com/average-iq-score.html
Smartest States. Look at that list! It is almost the inverse of happiness.
BigJimbo said:Simple people tend to be easy to please. Give a simple man a fat broad to bang, cheap porn, cheap fatty food, football, and beer. He is yours.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
speakeasy said:Interesting that the top ten happy states are mostly red states and the most the bottom ten are blue states. Wonder why that is? Ignorance is bliss?
I have to say I though California would be higher with our great weather, beaches and activities.
Being a hedonist means seeking out the pleasures of life. Enjoying the finer things. America is the farthest from a hedonistic paradise than I can imagine. Hedonism has NOTHING to do with sex or drinking. Nothing. Americans have no concept for quality. It is all about quantity. Give you an example. An Italian would prefer one night with a beautiful virginal girl in a grand hotel over 1,000 middle-aged tramps in a ****-- apartment. An American wouldn't. Americans tend to buy lots of cheap clothing, eat low quality food in great quantities, and have large cheap homes. Total opposite of most parts of the world. The greatest example is Japan.TyTe`EyEz said:You're one to talk. You always try to come off as some sort of hedonist - until Americans come up. Then you become the most pretentious ****** on this forum.
Being a hedonist means seeking out the pleasures of life. Enjoying the finer things. America is the farthest from a hedonistic paradise than I can imagine. Hedonism has NOTHING to do with sex or drinking. Nothing. Americans have no concept for quality. It is all about quantity. Give you an example. An Italian would prefer one night with a beautiful virginal girl in a grand hotel over 1,000 middle-aged tramps in a ****-- apartment. An American wouldn't. Americans tend to buy lots of cheap clothing, eat low quality food in great quantities, and have large cheap homes. Total opposite of most parts of the world. The greatest example is Japan.TyTe`EyEz said:You're one to talk. You always try to come off as some sort of hedonist - until Americans come up. Then you become the most pretentious ****** on this forum.
I dont know why cordon says you and allbeef are the same person.???BigJimbo said:Being a hedonist means seeking out the pleasures of life. Enjoying the finer things. America is the farthest from a hedonistic paradise than I can imagine. Hedonism has NOTHING to do with sex or drinking. Nothing. Americans have no concept for quality. It is all about quantity. Give you an example. An Italian would prefer one night with a beautiful virginal girl in a grand hotel over 1,000 middle-aged tramps in a ****-- apartment. An American wouldn't. Americans tend to buy lots of cheap clothing, eat low quality food in great quantities, and have large cheap homes. Total opposite of most parts of the world. The greatest example is Japan.
I will take it another step. Ask anyone who travels. Outside of Anglo countries college aged girls don't go to cafes and study! They go to enjoy themselves. Maybe show off, but not study.
On the other hand, maybe Middle Americans are hedonists. Just hedonists with no tastes or respect for quality. Explains your girlfriends. Explains your love for tramps and mothers.
snowdog said:^pigeon sh*t lmao
To be honest, I wouldn't want to live in a big city for long. Maybe a few years, but not more than that. I like having space around me. Right now I'm living in west Florida (aka South Alabama) for half a year and I'm loving it. I like the fact that people are way more laid back, they are willing to help one another and there's way less bullsh*t going on. I went out a bunch of times now and there are way less macho douchebags around. People are just friendly and want to have a good time.
I lived right next to Rotterdam my entire life, and I can't stand the place anymore. People are so ****ing bitter and cranky. Even on a nice sunny day everyone walks around like they just came from a funeral.
I went to NYC a couple of times and that place is awesome. Of course, I only saw the nice areas. I wouldn't want to live in Harlem or something.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Trust me, they are the same guy. He just takes on a different persona for each. I really think he's a 48 year old bald guy living in his parents basement in Topeka Kansas.BBbardot said:I dont know why cordon says you and allbeef are the same person.???
you're very different
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Cordon! I just noticed you threw out Serge Gainsbourgs' name in a post. Wow, so you do read my stuff. Nice. Send me a message and I can hook you up with lots of Serge Gainsbourg type of media. I also like Alizee, Kate Ryan, and even some of the old Lorie stuff. In case you didn't know. Lorie was like Brittany Spears and Alizee was a bit more Frenchie. Both had their place. Kate Ryan is Dutch and sings in accented French. She is still huge in Quebec.BBbardot said:I dont know why cordon says you and allbeef are the same person.???
you're very different
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Would LOVE to violate Alizee in every orifice. Never heard of the others you mentioned.BigJimbo said:Cordon! I just noticed you threw out Serge Gainsbourgs' name in a post. Wow, so you do read my stuff. Nice. Send me a message and I can hook you up with lots of Serge Gainsbourg type of media. I also like Alizee, Kate Ryan, and even some of the old Lorie stuff. In case you didn't know. Lorie was like Brittany Spears and Alizee was a bit more Frenchie. Both had their place. Kate Ryan is Dutch and sings in accented French. She is still huge in Quebec.
Here is a name - Mylene Farmer. She basically is behind Alizee and Kate Ryan (songs and such). She is weird as f--- though.
cordoncordon said:Would LOVE to violate Alizee in every orifice. Never heard of the others you mentioned.
I take it this is mynameisnobody/bluntmaster/etc again lol? I don't even know what that comment has to do with what I said. You seem fixated on what I make and do lol. You bring it up even when its not the topic of conversation.Hymen Breaker said:Ofcourse you are happy Cordon. You have a billion dollars right? You should be happy anywhere.
And you never answered my question. Have you cheated on your Asian girl yet? Because you preach how you are a great guy who never cheats.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
cordoncordon said:I take it this is mynameisnobody/bluntmaster/etc again lol? I don't even know what that comment has to do with what I said. You seem fixated on what I make and do lol. You bring it up even when its not the topic of conversation.
snowdog said:lol @ the b1tch fights going on here. You guys are killing me.
You're a mean drunk.Hymen Breaker said:Who cares what you think? Nobody does.
I'm just bringing up the fact how on NLG (RIP) Cordon paraded around like some upstanding great citizen, and talked down to people who cheated. And then he was busted for cheating the whole time he was posting down to people.
He was full of sh!t and he never owned up to it. It's time to own up. But he keeps ignoring it so that's all I need to know.
Cordon is like those preachers on TV who say "open up your purses, open up your wallet, it's your time to be SAVEEEEEED!" and then behind the scenes he is preaching to the Devil.
cordoncordon said:You're a mean drunk.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.