"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Happiest States

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Having lived in Mass for a while, I can attest that its inhabitants seem generally more miserable than in other states. The driving sucks, the taxes suck, the long cold winters suck...but they have had good sports teams in the last decade. The Sox are all the people in that area live for...

If I had to guess, I would say that people are happier in warmer states in general. I endured years and years of winter, and can safely say that when you are trapped inside for months at a time, year in and year out...it effects you in the worst kind of way. I could live the rest of my life without ever living through a new england winter ever again.
 

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Last I checked, we had 50 states in the union.
 

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Here are the 50 U.S. states (and the District of Columbia) in order of their well-being:

1. Louisiana
2. Hawaii
3. Florida
4. Tennessee
5. Arizona
6. Mississippi
7. Montana
8. South Carolina
9. Alabama
10. Maine
11. Alaska
12. North Carolina
13. Wyoming
14. Idaho
15. South Dakota
16. Texas
17. Arkansas
18. Vermont
19. Georgia
20. Oklahoma
21. Colorado
22. Delaware
23. Utah
24. New Mexico
25. North Dakota
26. Minnesota
27. New Hampshire
28. Virginia
29. Wisconsin
30. Oregon
31. Iowa
32. Kansas
33. Nebraska
34. West Virginia
35. Kentucky
36. Washington
37. District of Columbia
38. Missouri
39. Nevada
40. Maryland
41. Pennsylvania
42. Rhode Island
43. Massachusetts
44. Ohio
45. Illinois
46. California
47. Indiana
48. Michigan
49. New Jersey
50. Connecticut
51. New York

Rollo Tomassi said:
Last I checked, we had 50 states in the union.
 

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Interesting that the top ten happy states are mostly red states and the most the bottom ten are blue states. Wonder why that is? Ignorance is bliss? ;)

I have to say I though California would be higher with our great weather, beaches and activities.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm not surprised Michigan is at number 48. This place is a sh1thole!
 

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Lots of Southern States higher up in rank :up:
 
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speakeasy said:
Interesting that the top ten happy states are mostly red states and the most the bottom ten are blue states. Wonder why that is? Ignorance is bliss? ;)

I think it's more ignorant to live in a state with terrible weather and soaring tax rates, i.e., the bottom ten.
 

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speakeasy said:
Interesting that the top ten happy states are mostly red states and the most the bottom ten are blue states. Wonder why that is? Ignorance is bliss? ;)

I have to say I though California would be higher with our great weather, beaches and activities.
You gotta pay for all the good stuff thus (high cost of living = stress) and let's not forget the high unemployment rate and the state going bankrupt in a year.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm in NJ and I'd definitely say this is true. It's no surprise that the warmer southern states and sparse western states are much higher than icy, wintry, crammed NJ.
 

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How are Arizona and Nevada so far apart?? Nevada is like Arizona junior with casinos.
 

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i'm not american (so i may be wrong), but aren't the unhappiest states also the richest and most educated?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Check out blog.okcupid.com the newest post has lots of nifty slider charts that show how unhappy those 'better educated' states seem to be overall.
 
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The "less educated" states are generally more religious; religion brings people peace of mind.
 

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f283000 said:
Nevada is one of the foreclosure centers in the USA from what I read. The real state market went to hell. I'm sure all this has something to do with it.
That can't be it because Arizona is right there with us in terms of foreclosures. We both had the fastest growth rates in the country for a period of time so not surprising we both got hit hard when the housing bubble burst.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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