"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hangout ideas for possible "easy" girl

Tear Gas

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this chick on myspace messaged me and weve been talking on AIM...she looks like a w hore, so wining and dining isnt necessary. I dont want to spend money on her, i just want an easy lay. But i dont know where to ask her to chill without coming on too strong. I was thinking i should just ask her to drink at my/her place, but wouldnt that be too early?

whats some good hangout ideas too easily fcuk her without wasting too much time/money :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i like this thread, I can't remember the last time I had this problem, but its a good one to have. I look forward to replies
 
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Show us a pic of her - I'm good at determining hor impressions from a pic!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Show us a pic of her - I'm good at determining hor impressions from a pic!
:crackup:
i had a feeling you would say that
 

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nice body


what HB rating would you guys give her?
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hmmmm, hard to say - looks like like a normal regular American gal posing for a pic. Is that you beside her? Is this her Myspace? Need more info - does not compute!!

The girl next to her looks as if she has some Spanish blood - I likes!!
penkitten said:
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i had a feeling you would say that
I'm 45 years old with three decades of experience - who knows better? My "Hor meter" gadget is also accurate - beep, beep, beep, beep..warning, warning, warning!!
 

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My basic modus operandi is to get her to a secluded area (be it your place or hers, or someones place you can fvck) asap. Make excuses, like the one I use the most, "to watch a movie", and or, to look at your fish tank, your long african spear, your golden nuts, how you make some bananas with cream, how you juggle watermelons, etc.

(The last examples being obviously jokes, but, who knows, maybe she is Miss South Carolina 2007.)
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Hmmmm, hard to say - looks like like a normal regular American gal posing for a pic. Is that you beside her? Is this her Myspace? Need more info - does not compute!!
lol, thats not me..ive never met her..she just gives off a whorish vibe to me :p
its just i want to fcuk with the least amount of money/time spent :up:
 

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Ask her to go swimming (if there's a pool or ocean nearby), and that she should change at your place. Works like a charm
 

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uh if she's a hor, why even bother?

the dating options are the bed, the living room and the kitchen
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SamePendo said:
My basic modus operandi is to get her to a secluded area ...to look at your fish tank,
Hahaha, yeah, that's the ticket, she'll undress for sure - after looking at the aquarium - it always works like a charm!:up: :rolleyes:!!

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uh if she's a hor, why even bother?
She may be a virgin! :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: This is the maximum rolly eyes allowed!!!
 

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no, to the room with the most cameras broadcasting to my recording laptop computer so i can sit here and watch stalkerishly and pervertedly
 
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