I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
There are many different traits and talents within everyone. When you look at the bad you may fail to look at the good in your freind. When being influenced ignor the bad while your working on the good. I have alot of friends that are afc, but they have so many talents it just take time for me to realize it. One might be good at socielizin, anothey might be good at making instint rapport. So i would benefit off there good traits. If i was you i would teach my freinds to become more of a dj so they can be succesful wingmans. However if they do not listen to your glorious advice then its simply becuase of the lack of respect, therefore its your role to demand respect from them.Originally posted by bluelemond
Maybe you don't understand that these guys either don't want to do anything social, just play sports, OR they want to go and smoke and drink. Not my kind of thing. And NONE of them are DJs. They all bring me DOWN. Trying to give me advice and everything. And the thing is that when you try to help them, they all gang up on you and they you that your wrong. Eventually you'll become like your friends. (AFCs) PEOPLE NATURALLY BECOME MORE LIKE THOSE AROUND THEM, HENCE THEIR AFC FRIENDS. THIS IS WHY I'M PROBABLY NOT GOING TO HAVE MANY FRIENDS FOR A WHILE. THEY JUST WASTE MY TIME AND NEVER MAKE MY GAME BETTER. IT'S CALLED A BAD INFLUENCE.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.