You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
There are many different traits and talents within everyone. When you look at the bad you may fail to look at the good in your freind. When being influenced ignor the bad while your working on the good. I have alot of friends that are afc, but they have so many talents it just take time for me to realize it. One might be good at socielizin, anothey might be good at making instint rapport. So i would benefit off there good traits. If i was you i would teach my freinds to become more of a dj so they can be succesful wingmans. However if they do not listen to your glorious advice then its simply becuase of the lack of respect, therefore its your role to demand respect from them.Originally posted by bluelemond
Maybe you don't understand that these guys either don't want to do anything social, just play sports, OR they want to go and smoke and drink. Not my kind of thing. And NONE of them are DJs. They all bring me DOWN. Trying to give me advice and everything. And the thing is that when you try to help them, they all gang up on you and they you that your wrong. Eventually you'll become like your friends. (AFCs) PEOPLE NATURALLY BECOME MORE LIKE THOSE AROUND THEM, HENCE THEIR AFC FRIENDS. THIS IS WHY I'M PROBABLY NOT GOING TO HAVE MANY FRIENDS FOR A WHILE. THEY JUST WASTE MY TIME AND NEVER MAKE MY GAME BETTER. IT'S CALLED A BAD INFLUENCE.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.