"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hanging out with girl tomorrow, advice appreciated.

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Today I signed into my IM for the first time in a while and I saw this girl was online, shes a friend of a friend that I had met a couple times before. I had a short conversation with her and asked if she wanted to go for a drive or something since she was at home on friday, she said she wanted to (but then it started raining and I hate driving in the rain), so she recommended tomorrow night so I ask for her number (so I can call her about it tomorrow). She said she is excited for some reason.

Cliff notes:
1. Talk to girl thats on my IM list
2. Get her number
3. Make plans to hang out tomorrow

Any ideas of what I should talk to her about or where we should drive?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't ask her where she wants to go while in the car. You are the one who chooses!!
 
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crazyman11 said:
Don't ask her where she wants to go while in the car. You are the one who chooses!!
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yup... don't do that. i did it once and it did not end up well. u choose where to go.. just be the man and decide what's gonna happen:down:
 
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Have a plan ready and be the man. Take her to a nice spot in nature, to a fun bar for a drink, the icecream parlor, as long as you don't ask her what to do.

The reward for asking women what to do is having a girlfriend who TELLS you what to do.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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