"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hanging out with girl tomorrow, advice appreciated.

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Today I signed into my IM for the first time in a while and I saw this girl was online, shes a friend of a friend that I had met a couple times before. I had a short conversation with her and asked if she wanted to go for a drive or something since she was at home on friday, she said she wanted to (but then it started raining and I hate driving in the rain), so she recommended tomorrow night so I ask for her number (so I can call her about it tomorrow). She said she is excited for some reason.

Cliff notes:
1. Talk to girl thats on my IM list
2. Get her number
3. Make plans to hang out tomorrow

Any ideas of what I should talk to her about or where we should drive?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't ask her where she wants to go while in the car. You are the one who chooses!!
 
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crazyman11 said:
Don't ask her where she wants to go while in the car. You are the one who chooses!!
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yup... don't do that. i did it once and it did not end up well. u choose where to go.. just be the man and decide what's gonna happen:down:
 
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Have a plan ready and be the man. Take her to a nice spot in nature, to a fun bar for a drink, the icecream parlor, as long as you don't ask her what to do.

The reward for asking women what to do is having a girlfriend who TELLS you what to do.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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