"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hanging out with girl tomorrow, advice appreciated.

kalash74

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Today I signed into my IM for the first time in a while and I saw this girl was online, shes a friend of a friend that I had met a couple times before. I had a short conversation with her and asked if she wanted to go for a drive or something since she was at home on friday, she said she wanted to (but then it started raining and I hate driving in the rain), so she recommended tomorrow night so I ask for her number (so I can call her about it tomorrow). She said she is excited for some reason.

Cliff notes:
1. Talk to girl thats on my IM list
2. Get her number
3. Make plans to hang out tomorrow

Any ideas of what I should talk to her about or where we should drive?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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crazyman11

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Don't ask her where she wants to go while in the car. You are the one who chooses!!
 

eko

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crazyman11 said:
Don't ask her where she wants to go while in the car. You are the one who chooses!!
yup... don't do that. i did it once and it did not end up well. u choose where to go.. just be the man and decide what's gonna happen:down:
 

Dark Chivalry

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Have a plan ready and be the man. Take her to a nice spot in nature, to a fun bar for a drink, the icecream parlor, as long as you don't ask her what to do.

The reward for asking women what to do is having a girlfriend who TELLS you what to do.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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