"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I just got comfortable squatting, ive been trying to get parallel for some time and now Im getting it pretty well. Still getting used to squatting though, never done them before
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What do you guys think will be in store for me after Rippetoes? When do you think ill be done with Rippetoes...?

Im noticing that my jeans keep falling off my waist, i pulled them up 2000 times today, results or not, it still made me feel like theres a difference...
 

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Great job....Keep working hard Handy :D
 

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HandyAndy said:
Im noticing that my jeans keep falling off my waist, i pulled them up 2000 times today, results or not, it still made me feel like theres a difference...
Nice to see, keep it up bro :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thanks jahidi :)

5/26/08

I was hella tired today.

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180x5
180x5

Squat

140x5
140x5
140x5 Damn my legs are killing me

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185x5

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8x2

18 mins elliptical

Meal 1 - 3 Eggs- Scrambled
Meal 2 - Steak and veggies, protein shake
Meal 3 - Protein Shake
Meal 4 - Chicken and veggies, post workout carbs, is this ok?
Meal 5 - 4 boiled eggs
Meal 6 - Big ass salad
 
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Good stuff man, I'm liking this consistency.

As kerpal said, you probably won't need to change what you're doing for some time. At LEAST 12 weeks, perhaps more since you are still new to some of the lifts.

cheers bro
 

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Squat

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140x5
140x5

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180x5
180x5
180x5

I was having trouble on my last set, and a guy came and helped me. He asked me if I thought I could do more weight.

Him: You think you can add more weight?
Me: Well how much?
Him: You ever try 2 plates?
Me: No never

He proceeds to put the 225lbs on. Him and his friend do it with the "suicide grip" I was scared for these guys, I didnt want the weight to fall on them.

So its my turn, I get under, I do 2 reps and hes like "its all you man" I tried my third rep and failed. He did help me on the first 2 though, I could feel it. I thanked the dude and left. I was tired as hell after that...


Deads

185x5
 

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180 to 225 is impressive. good form?
i dont know if you are interested in lifting heavy, but if you do, get starting strength immediately (especially for the squat). :)
if you're main goal is just body recomp, then keep at it
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just wanna say something: I feel like my squats will have the same effect as my bench press, going up alot. I looked back at my squats from March and it was 115, now its 140, still may not be alot but I did raise the weight quite a bit, and squats are fun now, because they are killing me and my legs. Hopefully ill be hitting the 200's this summer.
 

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Good day :)

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185x5
185x5 :box: :rockon: :cheer: Hell yeah

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145x5
145x5
145x5 I love these, they are killing me!

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185x5 Okay, problem here. I can now bench this...whats going on?

20 mins elliptical
 

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Guys, ive been getting these weird headaches. Ill go to sleep with a small headache, then during the night, every time I shift my weight, be it my head or my body, I get this massive throbbing in my head then it goes away. This happens the whole night. Then I wake up, and EVERY TIME this happens, I throw up that morning, and use the bathroom. The headache stays throughout the whole day and dissipates over time....this has happened many times already, and clue as to what it is?
 

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HandyAndy said:
Guys, ive been getting these weird headaches. Ill go to sleep with a small headache, then during the night, every time I shift my weight, be it my head or my body, I get this massive throbbing in my head then it goes away. This happens the whole night. Then I wake up, and EVERY TIME this happens, I throw up that morning, and use the bathroom. The headache stays throughout the whole day and dissipates over time....this has happened many times already, and clue as to what it is?
go see your doctor
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Will do.

Yet today, I came across another problem. When I woke up this morning my right lower back was in extreme pain. I started flipping out because I couldnt find a position to stand in that would make the pain go away. So eventually I realized the right side of my back would hurt when I breathed in, this morning I couldnt yawn or take a deep breathe. I got in the warm shower today and now I can take deep breathes and its not hurting as much as it was at first. Did I sleep wrong? Did I pull a muscle?
 

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On my last set of bench press, this guy wanted to work in, he did his set and then I went in to do mine. He kept making me laugh by saying things like; "cmon I wanna see 100 of these!"

Then when I actually started doing my reps he kept counting 101, 102, 103, 104! I ****in started laughing and couldnt finish my set

Squat

145x5
145x5
145x5

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185x5
185x5, Piece of cake...

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145x5
145x5, lower back rounds, pissing me off

Deadlifts

185x5, im fvcking pissed off here, I cant get this right! My lower back rounds and im bent over so much, its impossible to stick my chest out, I hate doing these now because I cant get them down..

20 mins cardio on elliptical, felt great...my 2 shirts were drenched in sweat
 

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My diet so far

Meal 1: Protein Shake
Meal 2: 2 Pieces of chicken breast and a salad
Meal 3: 90-something % lean beef patties, I dont make a hamburger out of them, I just cook the patties and eat them :)
Meal 4: Good quality beef chunks with some seasoning
Meal 5: More beef, I cooked and left some extra in the fridge
Meal 6: Probably a Protein shake.

I know its not perfect but hey, no/low-carbs :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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