"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Handling LJBF from girl you have been going out and kissing

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how would you guys handle this from a woman you ve Been going out and kissing?
Not contact anymore?
Say ok lets stay friends cause i need more from a woman?
Other?

"i really like being with you, you're a great company, but i dont like you in that way, that's why i dont give you everything i am.. :(
But i dont want us to be apart.. But i respect your opinion.."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Scion

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"sorry, but I have enough friends already. Take care."
 
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Lexington

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Yup, eff that. Why would you want to hang around her if you're not getting anything out of it. There's no use in trying to hide your intentions. Just say that you're not interested in being friends. Be frank about it. Then, just forget about her. If she realizes that she wants more, she'll contact you.
 
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WesCottII

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Honestly, learn to walk away.

It'll only piss you off being around her and not getting what you want. Be a man about it.
 
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Say "yeah sure we can be friends" so you look like you're not bothered by the rejection, but then don't follow through with it.

Don't make a big deal out of it saying how you want more than friends, because she already knows what you want and you're not gonna get it - it will just look needy. Walk away with a smile.

Go no contact and don't hang out with her anymore. Move on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i agree star, dont make a sour grapes soapbox out of "not needing any more friends"... just lose interest in her and move on.
 
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