"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Handling LJBF from girl you have been going out and kissing

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how would you guys handle this from a woman you ve Been going out and kissing?
Not contact anymore?
Say ok lets stay friends cause i need more from a woman?
Other?

"i really like being with you, you're a great company, but i dont like you in that way, that's why i dont give you everything i am.. :(
But i dont want us to be apart.. But i respect your opinion.."
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"sorry, but I have enough friends already. Take care."
 
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Yup, eff that. Why would you want to hang around her if you're not getting anything out of it. There's no use in trying to hide your intentions. Just say that you're not interested in being friends. Be frank about it. Then, just forget about her. If she realizes that she wants more, she'll contact you.
 
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Honestly, learn to walk away.

It'll only piss you off being around her and not getting what you want. Be a man about it.
 
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Say "yeah sure we can be friends" so you look like you're not bothered by the rejection, but then don't follow through with it.

Don't make a big deal out of it saying how you want more than friends, because she already knows what you want and you're not gonna get it - it will just look needy. Walk away with a smile.

Go no contact and don't hang out with her anymore. Move on.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i agree star, dont make a sour grapes soapbox out of "not needing any more friends"... just lose interest in her and move on.
 
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