Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Handling LJBF from girl you have been going out and kissing

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how would you guys handle this from a woman you ve Been going out and kissing?
Not contact anymore?
Say ok lets stay friends cause i need more from a woman?
Other?

"i really like being with you, you're a great company, but i dont like you in that way, that's why i dont give you everything i am.. :(
But i dont want us to be apart.. But i respect your opinion.."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"sorry, but I have enough friends already. Take care."
 
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Yup, eff that. Why would you want to hang around her if you're not getting anything out of it. There's no use in trying to hide your intentions. Just say that you're not interested in being friends. Be frank about it. Then, just forget about her. If she realizes that she wants more, she'll contact you.
 
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Honestly, learn to walk away.

It'll only piss you off being around her and not getting what you want. Be a man about it.
 
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Say "yeah sure we can be friends" so you look like you're not bothered by the rejection, but then don't follow through with it.

Don't make a big deal out of it saying how you want more than friends, because she already knows what you want and you're not gonna get it - it will just look needy. Walk away with a smile.

Go no contact and don't hang out with her anymore. Move on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i agree star, dont make a sour grapes soapbox out of "not needing any more friends"... just lose interest in her and move on.
 
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