"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Handling AMOGing

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How do you respond to a situation when someone AMOGs you because of your lack of knowledge? Let's say you come to a party dressed more casually than expected and a guy AMOGs you clearly trying to make you look like a fool? He does it in a funny way though. Or your handshake has a flaw (from my experience!) and the guy obviously comments on it.

How do you aknowledge your mistake without giving him perceived authority on the matter?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'd say, "Hey, an original observation! Guess I'm not the only one here!" then smile at him and prolong your eye contact like you don't give a damn, like you're actually laughing at HIM.
 

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OMG CHECK DIZ...this happend to me like 2 weeks ago..i was with a girl who totally could get any guy she wanted...we were in the club...all guys were hitting on her n everything...guys where dancing on her...she was flirting sitting on guys laps basically getting AMOG'D big TIME i mean i was feeling so inferior...but the best remedy for that was i got on the dance floor and i start grinding on other girls...talking to other girls by the end of the night she came back to me and now she just told me she loves me :cool: RAFC...i guess i learned something from this site!!!:up:
 

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if he comments on your clothes, ask him why he was checking you out

or, apologize for not meeting his high standards with guys, and tell him you'll stick to women from now on
 

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Espi said:
Rarely happens, but keep two things in mind:

1. Choose to think that the AMOG feels threatened by you. Whether it's true or not, I choose to believe it because it gives me a psychological edge.

2. Don't flake, but assert yourself. Use ****y & Funny. Use the AMOG's neg to showcase your humor.

AMOG: Dude, do you know you're the only one wearing jeans?

CF RESPONSES:

PUA: Oh, DAMN, bro! I didn't get the memo. Tell you what, bro...here's a dollar (hand penney to AMOG)...don't tell the fashion police I'm here, OK? (wink)

PUA: Yeah, bro...I went to go pick up my Greg Norman Blackberry Limited Edition slacks today, but the cleaners forgot to add starch, so I figure I'd wear jeans to showcase my ass.

PUA: Yeah, bro, I AM wearing jeans...today is National Jeans Day. C'mon, bro, get with the program!"

Whatever you do don't say bro repeatedly. Or at all.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I hate it when your wing AMOGs you in a set right when you reached the hook point. Last two times I've gone out, I held a 2set, and my wing slides in all quiet fox like or moves me aside to talk to his target and their smiles fade. Least to say, he won't be wing next time.
 
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