"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Handling AMOGing

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How do you respond to a situation when someone AMOGs you because of your lack of knowledge? Let's say you come to a party dressed more casually than expected and a guy AMOGs you clearly trying to make you look like a fool? He does it in a funny way though. Or your handshake has a flaw (from my experience!) and the guy obviously comments on it.

How do you aknowledge your mistake without giving him perceived authority on the matter?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'd say, "Hey, an original observation! Guess I'm not the only one here!" then smile at him and prolong your eye contact like you don't give a damn, like you're actually laughing at HIM.
 

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OMG CHECK DIZ...this happend to me like 2 weeks ago..i was with a girl who totally could get any guy she wanted...we were in the club...all guys were hitting on her n everything...guys where dancing on her...she was flirting sitting on guys laps basically getting AMOG'D big TIME i mean i was feeling so inferior...but the best remedy for that was i got on the dance floor and i start grinding on other girls...talking to other girls by the end of the night she came back to me and now she just told me she loves me :cool: RAFC...i guess i learned something from this site!!!:up:
 

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if he comments on your clothes, ask him why he was checking you out

or, apologize for not meeting his high standards with guys, and tell him you'll stick to women from now on
 

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Espi said:
Rarely happens, but keep two things in mind:

1. Choose to think that the AMOG feels threatened by you. Whether it's true or not, I choose to believe it because it gives me a psychological edge.

2. Don't flake, but assert yourself. Use ****y & Funny. Use the AMOG's neg to showcase your humor.

AMOG: Dude, do you know you're the only one wearing jeans?

CF RESPONSES:

PUA: Oh, DAMN, bro! I didn't get the memo. Tell you what, bro...here's a dollar (hand penney to AMOG)...don't tell the fashion police I'm here, OK? (wink)

PUA: Yeah, bro...I went to go pick up my Greg Norman Blackberry Limited Edition slacks today, but the cleaners forgot to add starch, so I figure I'd wear jeans to showcase my ass.

PUA: Yeah, bro, I AM wearing jeans...today is National Jeans Day. C'mon, bro, get with the program!"

Whatever you do don't say bro repeatedly. Or at all.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I hate it when your wing AMOGs you in a set right when you reached the hook point. Last two times I've gone out, I held a 2set, and my wing slides in all quiet fox like or moves me aside to talk to his target and their smiles fade. Least to say, he won't be wing next time.
 
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