"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Halloween Party - Costumes to Stand Out?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Keeper
Master Don Juan
Last haloween I went as death. Just a black hoody, skelly mask and a sickle will do.
Or... I've always wanted to go as superman. No, not the full costume. Just wear a nice set of pants and matching jacket, under that a white dress shirt with more than half the buttons open - showing a cool superman logo t-shirt underneath. Don't forget the glasses and black hair, with the single lock on your forehead. ;-)
Vibe
Don Juan
Think Frank Sinatra, Humphrey Bogart, etc.
Then I can roleplay with that calm, cool, gruff gangster style.
Hopefully I'll find a sexy flapper girl that I can roleplay with and bring back to my...pad...
~Vibe~
DiSt0rTi0n_07
Don Juan
1. You need a good costume.
2. You gotta hit on some chicks and go somewhere with it.
Well, dress up as a police officer...
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Why you ask? Well, bring a pair of hand-cuffs, leave the keys at home, and cuff yourself to the hottest girl there
Anyone can turn this into something good haha!DJHoolahoop
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Im just gonna walk around like Im about to make a bust.
satyriasis
Don Juan
my friend got this costume last week, i'll see how it goes. ha.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
how originalOriginally posted by Monty
I'm going to a costume party tonight - as a pimp. Fur coat, purple hat, big cane and some bling-bling - it'll definitely stand out. I've worn it before, hehe.
Funny how someone suggested it too
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seanchai
Master Don Juan
My brother was a Chippendale's dancer one year. He's a white ass dork but it was very popular. I'm currently dressed as a rockstar with chains and rings and a tank top and leather pants and silver boots and a tie. My hair is about 4" high.
Sh!t, I'm actually dressed as my brother
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Unlike ghosts, goblins, and poitergeists IRS auditors are real.
I think it's pretty scary if one day you're told that you're going to get a mega audit and you need to turn up the past seven years of records. Then they uncover all your indiscretions and make you pay, pay, and PAY.
At least it's original, and chances are no one else is going to do it.
I suppose another idea is to be the CEO of Enron, because he stole retirement money from many people.
For either all you need is a suit, a fedora (if you're the type to wear hats, otherwise don't worry about it), and the ability to dress well when being formal.
Ben
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.