“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Halloween Party - Costumes to Stand Out?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Keeper
Master Don Juan
Last haloween I went as death. Just a black hoody, skelly mask and a sickle will do.
Or... I've always wanted to go as superman. No, not the full costume. Just wear a nice set of pants and matching jacket, under that a white dress shirt with more than half the buttons open - showing a cool superman logo t-shirt underneath. Don't forget the glasses and black hair, with the single lock on your forehead. ;-)
Vibe
Don Juan
Think Frank Sinatra, Humphrey Bogart, etc.
Then I can roleplay with that calm, cool, gruff gangster style.
Hopefully I'll find a sexy flapper girl that I can roleplay with and bring back to my...pad...
~Vibe~
DiSt0rTi0n_07
Don Juan
1. You need a good costume.
2. You gotta hit on some chicks and go somewhere with it.
Well, dress up as a police officer...
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Why you ask? Well, bring a pair of hand-cuffs, leave the keys at home, and cuff yourself to the hottest girl there
Anyone can turn this into something good haha!DJHoolahoop
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Brian20o2
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Im just gonna walk around like Im about to make a bust.
satyriasis
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my friend got this costume last week, i'll see how it goes. ha.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
how originalOriginally posted by Monty
I'm going to a costume party tonight - as a pimp. Fur coat, purple hat, big cane and some bling-bling - it'll definitely stand out. I've worn it before, hehe.
Funny how someone suggested it too
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seanchai
Master Don Juan
My brother was a Chippendale's dancer one year. He's a white ass dork but it was very popular. I'm currently dressed as a rockstar with chains and rings and a tank top and leather pants and silver boots and a tie. My hair is about 4" high.
Sh!t, I'm actually dressed as my brother
Abbott
Master Don Juan
Unlike ghosts, goblins, and poitergeists IRS auditors are real.
I think it's pretty scary if one day you're told that you're going to get a mega audit and you need to turn up the past seven years of records. Then they uncover all your indiscretions and make you pay, pay, and PAY.
At least it's original, and chances are no one else is going to do it.
I suppose another idea is to be the CEO of Enron, because he stole retirement money from many people.
For either all you need is a suit, a fedora (if you're the type to wear hats, otherwise don't worry about it), and the ability to dress well when being formal.
Ben
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.