lets hear them i got the hugh hefner robe was going to go as hef.... you guys think that would be a good idea to approach women? or is a hef costume only good if you already are bringing some lady friends? im going to some 3000 person costume party
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Halloween costume ideas?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
cavedweller
Don Juan
Party?
I am going to comb my hair, shine my shoes, put on a suit and tie and go as a damnnn crooked politician..
Hell on Wheels
I am going to comb my hair, shine my shoes, put on a suit and tie and go as a damnnn crooked politician..
Hell on Wheels
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Dress as a Facebook or Twitter profile. Don't you realize how many people use these networks?
AFCToDJSlowButSurely
Don Juan
i was a homeless bum last night lol and will be again tonight
SandHawk
Master Don Juan
I dressed up in an old army officer uniform with knee high laced boots over the pants, got myself a set of cuffs and a whip. I had chicks all over me, several of them complemented me on my uniform and then went in for the kiss. No talking whatsoever.
I've had my whip on A LOT of asses, pulled quite some chick's hair and constantly people wanting to have their picture taken with me. Going with the authority look was an EPIC choice.
I've had my whip on A LOT of asses, pulled quite some chick's hair and constantly people wanting to have their picture taken with me. Going with the authority look was an EPIC choice.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Haha I borrowed my roommate's Tony Romo jersey, and made a sling out of an old t-shirt. Guys loved it...girls didn't really get the reference. But a couple of them started talking to me just because they were confused. Good night nonetheless 