lets hear them i got the hugh hefner robe was going to go as hef.... you guys think that would be a good idea to approach women? or is a hef costume only good if you already are bringing some lady friends? im going to some 3000 person costume party
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Halloween costume ideas?
- Thread starter wataf
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
cavedweller
Don Juan
Party?
I am going to comb my hair, shine my shoes, put on a suit and tie and go as a damnnn crooked politician..
Hell on Wheels
I am going to comb my hair, shine my shoes, put on a suit and tie and go as a damnnn crooked politician..
Hell on Wheels
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Dress as a Facebook or Twitter profile. Don't you realize how many people use these networks?
AFCToDJSlowButSurely
Don Juan
i was a homeless bum last night lol and will be again tonight
SandHawk
Master Don Juan
I dressed up in an old army officer uniform with knee high laced boots over the pants, got myself a set of cuffs and a whip. I had chicks all over me, several of them complemented me on my uniform and then went in for the kiss. No talking whatsoever.
I've had my whip on A LOT of asses, pulled quite some chick's hair and constantly people wanting to have their picture taken with me. Going with the authority look was an EPIC choice.
I've had my whip on A LOT of asses, pulled quite some chick's hair and constantly people wanting to have their picture taken with me. Going with the authority look was an EPIC choice.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Haha I borrowed my roommate's Tony Romo jersey, and made a sling out of an old t-shirt. Guys loved it...girls didn't really get the reference. But a couple of them started talking to me just because they were confused. Good night nonetheless 