lets hear them i got the hugh hefner robe was going to go as hef.... you guys think that would be a good idea to approach women? or is a hef costume only good if you already are bringing some lady friends? im going to some 3000 person costume party
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Halloween costume ideas?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
cavedweller
Don Juan
Party?
I am going to comb my hair, shine my shoes, put on a suit and tie and go as a damnnn crooked politician..
Hell on Wheels
I am going to comb my hair, shine my shoes, put on a suit and tie and go as a damnnn crooked politician..
Hell on Wheels
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Dress as a Facebook or Twitter profile. Don't you realize how many people use these networks?
AFCToDJSlowButSurely
Don Juan
i was a homeless bum last night lol and will be again tonight
SandHawk
Master Don Juan
I dressed up in an old army officer uniform with knee high laced boots over the pants, got myself a set of cuffs and a whip. I had chicks all over me, several of them complemented me on my uniform and then went in for the kiss. No talking whatsoever.
I've had my whip on A LOT of asses, pulled quite some chick's hair and constantly people wanting to have their picture taken with me. Going with the authority look was an EPIC choice.
I've had my whip on A LOT of asses, pulled quite some chick's hair and constantly people wanting to have their picture taken with me. Going with the authority look was an EPIC choice.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Haha I borrowed my roommate's Tony Romo jersey, and made a sling out of an old t-shirt. Guys loved it...girls didn't really get the reference. But a couple of them started talking to me just because they were confused. Good night nonetheless 