"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
halloweeen
- Thread starter eminence
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
however our 4 yr old is going to be a fairy and the puppies are going to be an angel and a princess haha
gio has not picked a costume out and i always wear the same one a 1970's vintage couch (ok so they are ugly pants that look and feel like a 1970s couch and have little hangy things on the bottoms of the cuffs)
i need some ugly gold 1970s lampshape to wear as a hat and i could say i'm a living room suite.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I am going to be Cinderella
My roommate is going to be Jasmine (my roommate weighs 220 lbs and is 6 ft)
My friend is going to be Snow White (6'5" cuban with short black hair)
I am shaving the hair on my arms and wearing a wig.
comic_relief