"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Halloweeeen!!

DogFashionDisco

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I know there's other threads about halloween, but here's another!

It's a week away and there's only one question, what are you guys being for halloween?


I still haven't decided yet about mine. But I've been considering being Captain Morgan, Samuel Adams, or Santa Claus. :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pfft Captian morgan is so played out. Dress like a butch leather slave.
 

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I saw this costume at the mall, it was a breathalyzer test. it has a little tube by the crotch with a sign that says blow here. :crackup: also, some other guy told me to wrap a twister (the game board around myself). Then you bring the spinner and the girls get to touch you in special places. :whistle: he also told me to dress as a donkey and play pin the tail on the donkey with girls. you can guess where that one is going. Or you just glue a bunch of magnets to a t-shirt and go as a chick magnet.
 

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I'm going as a corpse this year. Blood all over my face and body. A friend of mine will be wearing a hockey mask and carrying a fake chainsaw, and he'll be hoisting me on his shoulder.

This should scare the little kids good!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Or you just glue a bunch of magnets to a t-shirt and go as a chick magnet.

Wait, this seemed like a cool idea when i first read it, but now i dont know if it makes sense? shouldnt you dress as a magnet to be a chick magnet?
 
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