"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Halloweeeen!!

DogFashionDisco

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I know there's other threads about halloween, but here's another!

It's a week away and there's only one question, what are you guys being for halloween?


I still haven't decided yet about mine. But I've been considering being Captain Morgan, Samuel Adams, or Santa Claus. :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pfft Captian morgan is so played out. Dress like a butch leather slave.
 

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I saw this costume at the mall, it was a breathalyzer test. it has a little tube by the crotch with a sign that says blow here. :crackup: also, some other guy told me to wrap a twister (the game board around myself). Then you bring the spinner and the girls get to touch you in special places. :whistle: he also told me to dress as a donkey and play pin the tail on the donkey with girls. you can guess where that one is going. Or you just glue a bunch of magnets to a t-shirt and go as a chick magnet.
 

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I'm going as a corpse this year. Blood all over my face and body. A friend of mine will be wearing a hockey mask and carrying a fake chainsaw, and he'll be hoisting me on his shoulder.

This should scare the little kids good!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Or you just glue a bunch of magnets to a t-shirt and go as a chick magnet.

Wait, this seemed like a cool idea when i first read it, but now i dont know if it makes sense? shouldnt you dress as a magnet to be a chick magnet?
 
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