"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hairy Legs

grifter

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hey everyone, i went out in these pants that u can see my leg hair... this girl said my hair was really hairy, but i dont know what to do, i dont shave my LEGs cuz i aint gay... she told me to trim it a little.... i mean i shave everywhere, pits, chest, back, shoulder, pubs, but i dont shave my legs... should i start? would this be gay? how much if good to shave off? how should legs ideally be?:confused:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NRM

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Are you gay? If you aren't then who gives a damn? You're already shaving the rest of your body, why not finish off with legs too?
 

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i have hairy legs too, but i dont give a ****...and if i shaved it would feel like spines on my legs...and i dont have a trimmer so my hairy legs will have to do...
 

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i have very hairy legs and ive had positive experiences with having them such.

just the other day outside class i was sitting in the hall with everyone else that finished the final and one of the chicks from my class came and sat down next to me and started playing/pulling on my leg hair. she commented on how hairy they were and asked if it hurt when she pulled on them to which i said, "no you're a girl:p"

anyways this girl was a sunshine girl and her boyfriend was sitting across the hall so i kinda just smirked and went back to my business. he came over in a few minutes and pulled her away cuz he was jealous, but guys, don't shave your fvckin legs.... being able to let yourself go in that area is a blessing and something i bet women wish they could do if they could get away with it.

-J
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Yeah, I have hairy legs and its actually cool for me 'cause than all these chicks start feeling on my leg hairs and than try pulling 'em. Good kino 'cause than I start tickling them when they wont stop.
 

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If you are a sasquatch, then shave down. If you are a hobbit with hair on your feet, then shave down.


Side note: I hear the women in Russia are lax about shaving their legs and armpits. Thanks for killing my erection, Natasha. :rolleyes:
 

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There's no need to shave your legs unless you're a competitive swimmer, bodybuilder, or you're growing trees. A light trim may be necessary at times, but there's rarely a need to bic it.
 

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I have hairy legs but they are light brown so aren't that obvious.
Also I never wear shorts (except when on the beach or when playing ball or something) not because of legs but because I think that's not appropriate for college so no one sees my legs!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wong Fei Hung

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Do not ever shave your hairy legs and arms. I am very hairy for an Asian. I got hairy arms, legs, chest, and back. Plus I got sidesburns that my siblings and friends start calling me Irish WFH. ;)

sux2bu, I cannot agreed more!

Side note: I know some women in Russia dont shaving their legs, arms, bikini area, and armpits. Thanks for killing my erection, Marina.!:mad:
 

Barbillus

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I use a beard trimmer to trim my hairy legs. Looks good.

Just dont over do it.
 

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^ geez why r u so mad???

anyways, i shave pubes bcuz i hate them hairy, and am too lazy to just trim. i only shaved my pits once, that's cuz i hate them when they sweaty. id shave my head too if i didnt love my hair lol.
 
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Usually guys in 'competition' shave for practical reasons - otherwise a man that shaves his legs is a homo or a pvssy that is trying to please others!!! Pxssys shave their legs!!! Don't be a pvssy!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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